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Emmad781
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So when I went to the toilet there was a tiny bright red spot of blood

I'm 11 weeks and 4 days pregnant so went to a and e and they have sent me home till the morning I definitely won't be sleeping tonight I have had cramps these last few days.... this is the furthest I've ever got but is it all over, I pray to God it isn't ๐Ÿ˜ง

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Em2405

Hope you are ok lovely. Make sure you take it easy, can they not give you a scan to reassure you? Lots of people have bleeds and still go on to have a healthy pregnancy so try not to drive yourself mad. Fingers crossed for you. Xxx

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Emmad781 in reply to Em2405

Thank you for your reply

They said they couldn't scan me,early pregnancy unit was closed. I even tried to book somewhere private for today but the few I found that were open today we're fully booked.

I have read other people bleeding and their pregnancy being just fine so fingers crossed xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

I really hope not lovely. I don't think it is hopefully it's just one of those things that will pass are you still bleeding hun? Thinking of you ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ˜˜

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Emmad781 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

I'm not bleeding anymore, but you know the vibrations/bubbles you said you could feel,well I felt that too but I haven't for the last two days. All I can do is wait now and try to relax xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Emmad781

Hun I don't feel them every day. Don't panic about that, they will scan you tomorrow right? Thinking of you lovely big hugs ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ˜˜

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Emmad781 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you , yes they will scan me and ill let you know how I get on xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Emmad781

Please do hun. Try get some rest. Lots of love ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ˜˜

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Emmad781

How you doing lovely? I really hope everything's ok? ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’

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Emmad781 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

All went well thank god. Heard a heartbeat and I'm so relieved

They couldn't tell where the blood come from but as I've got one embryo that has stop forming they said I could experience blood loss and cramps

I can relax now and look forward to my scan next week xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Emmad781

Oh what a, relief. I'm so pleased to hear this thanks for getting back to me. Big hugs hun now you can breathe ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’

I am sorry to hear youโ€™re going through this; lots of women bleed in early pregnancy and the baby is ok. Really hope you are one and everything is fine. Definitely agree with others; any bleeding in pregnancy should be checked out. All the best xoxo

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Emmad781 in reply to

Hi Jess

I hope your right, I'm going in at 9am so fingers crossed xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Emmad1781. Youโ€™re just at the stage where the top of your womb it is starting to move above your pubic hairline, which could be the crampy feeling you have. Hopefully the scan will reassure you. Thinking of you. Diane

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Emmad781 in reply to DianeArnold

Thanks Diane

Thank you for your reply

I hope your right,ill be going in for 9am so hopefully will have the answers

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK in reply to Emmad781

Me too! Good luck! Do let me know how it goes if you can. Diane

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kumkums

I join you to pray to God that it isn't over. Please keep cool, I know it's very difficult. Big hugs from me.

Maybe push for a scan tomorrow to give you some reassurance.

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Emmad781 in reply to kumkums

Thank you for your reply

I'm going at 9am so hopefully won't be waiting too long

And ill know what going on

Hopefully nothing and bubba is still growing well. Think positive (easier said than done) xx

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Kathryn1984

I am brown bleeding at 9 weeks, have been for 2 weeks. I thought I had lost it, I had grieved for 5 days before I could get a scan at EPU. The ultrasound showed baby was fine and I had a small hematoma, a small blood pocket, and that is whatโ€™s causing the blood. When I was there the doctor said there are loads of different reasons why someone might bleed in the first trimester, and that it wasnโ€™t normal, but certainly not unusual. I know that nothing will make you feel better until you have the scan, I was in an awful state, I just tried to take my mind of it the best I could, my family where brilliant, and I also phoned the miscarriage Association support line, which was a huge help just to cry to someone. I pray that everything will be ok for you tomorrow.

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Emmad781 in reply to Kathryn1984

Thank you so much for all the info x

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LHow81

Iโ€™ll have everything crossed for you x

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Flimzee

Good luck and I hope you have a scan today and all is well. I had quite heavy bleeding when I was pregnant with my daughter. Strangely I used to get it around the time my period was due (although I wouldnโ€™t describe it as a period). It stopped after the first trimester and she is now a very healthy five year old. Fingers crossed for you and your baby xxx

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Elynn

Pretty common as the uterus stretches. Hope you can get a reassuring scan soon ๐Ÿ˜€

So sorry to hear you're having problems - any news? I had loads of bleeding, including around the same time as you - I was ti=old it was likely the placenta embedding. I'm now 14 weeks and all is well. Big hugs xx

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