As the title says, our first go didn’t work 😣 10 eggs collected, 9 fertilised but by day 5 the only blastocyst was poor quality (3cc) and there was nothing to freeze. Transfer was on the Monday (with 3cc) and I was bleeding by Saturday, so only 5 days later. Period came 14 days after egg collection. I have felt sad and down since transfer day basically 😢 We paid for this go and I had mentally counted on frozen as a ‘back up’. In all my usual cycles I spot-bleed (with pain) at least for four days before period starts, so I kind of knew it hadn’t worked. I basically feel like I’ve massively failed, I’m scared about doing exactly the same thing again, I spoke to our nurse and she agreed bleeding that early isn’t good.... so hoping that they’re going to suggest doing something different?!
I feel a bit like I’ve been hit by a bus 😬 scared that I can’t cope with the mental stress & anxiety that IVF brings. I guess everyone feels like that!
Does anyone have any suggestions on tests I should see if they can do? Or have people gone on to have much better second eggs etc?
There are so many strong people on here, I don’t know how you all keep going, it’s so hard!!! Thanks for listening to my ramble! Xx