i think someone should design a special IVF pregnancy test, “not this time, but you’re going to be ok”.
sadly many of you understand the pain of multiple failed cycles. despair. emptiness. failed wife, failed daughter. being that weird friend.
we approached this cycle with hope and open hearts - made lifestyle adjustments early on, had the scratch, laughed a lot, ate healthily, swapped my beloved bikram yoga for walking, practiced daily mindfulness, had reflexology and CBT. my hub lovingly did all my injections while telling me he was having guyVF!!
my lining was “beautiful”, my embryos “vibrant”.
the birds still sing, while we silently grieve for something we never had.
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So sorry Noodles, squeeze your OT tight - he sounds like a hero. Thinking of you xxx
Oh sweet I’m so sorry. I have no words for it all- I don’t understand why we all given such a s**t hand. You take care of yourself and know we are all here for you xoxo
I'm so sorry to hear this, sending hugs to you both xx
Oh Noodles, I’m so sad to read this, I’m in tears here as unfortunately I totally understand your pain. You put so much into this (as we all do) so the frustration and disappointment is unbearable.
Take time with your OH to gather strength and look to the future when you are ready.
Aw Noodles, I am so sorry. I can really identify with your post. It’s so difficult, I know how much effort goes into a cycle, and how you have worked so hard to try to make this work. Sending you lots of love, take good care of yourselves xxx
So sorry to hear of your BFN - we invest so much of our time, love and emotions into this process it really is a loss when it doesn’t work - everyone we deal with gives you their best wishes and you fill up with positivity that when you get that BFN it’s like someone has just plugged the plug - it’s all washes away in an instant and there is nothing you can do but grieve and love each other. Wishing you peace during this awful time and pray that it’s the last time you have to suffer it xxx
This is so sad: I am sorry. Every negative is a loss of the dreams and hopes we have. Sounds like you’ve got a good ‘un with his guyVF (made me smile) so try to take comfort in each other. Sending you lots of love xxx
Totally echo this could have written it myself. We just had our 3rd bfn yesterday and we’re broken. Hope you’re ok and really sympathise /can relate with your situation xx
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We are PREGNANT!!!!!! 
Officially pregnant! 😲
***Sensitive post. Surrogate pregnant. 
Sensitive - Don’t feel pregnant.
Upset - best friend is pregnant
