So distraught.....

[Dreamingofbaby]

Scan today and as half suspected little one stopped growing and so am to expect to miscarry 😔. Oh get so far to this. Feels so unfair but guess least I got this far so hopefully means can get pregnant again. Who knows. Thanks for input guys. Take good care ....

[Penders]

I'm really sorry for your loss. I hope it all passes quickly for you. Take time to grieve it's so heartbreaking when this happens. Look after yourself. Sending lots of love and hugs xxxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Penders]

Thank u. So kind appreciate it. Sorry again for ur loss to. It’s heartbreaking indeed 🙁x

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Awwww hun bless you, such a tough journey, like Penders I hope it passes quickly, give yourself some tlc and you know we're here if you want to chat. Lots of love, thinking of you.

💗🤗😘

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Thank you. But scared what will happen next and how quickly or not but guess will find out. Thanks for support☺️

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Dreamingofbaby]

It is scary hun hopefully it will just come naturally if you want to chat pm me hun💗🤗😘

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Let’s hope so though have s feeling it won’t n b hard work too but will see ☺️ thanks x

[Hidden]

Omg this is heartbreaking I'm sooo sorry. I got a bfn this morning and was ballin my eyes out. Can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. Massive hugs xxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Hidden]

Sorry to hear about ur bfn. Is awful and heart breaking. Big hugs to u too xx

[-noodles-]

really sorry to hear this - it is cruel and so unfair. hope you find strength in the days ahead. sending love xx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to -noodles-]

Thank u. Def is. Sure I will find strength some how. Warriors a😔

[vic77]

sending my love 💜💜💜💜my heart is breaking for you both 💔💔💔💔xxxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to vic77]

Thanks again hun. Appreciate ur support. Xx

[Hidden]

Sending big hugs xxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Hidden]

Thanks x

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I had a early miscarriage last year at 4 and a half weeks and it is so heartbreaking 💔💔💔 so sorry you’re going through this. Yes you can get pregnant and that in itself is great progress. I’m sure it will happen again for you xoxo

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Hidden]

Sorry for u loss too. Is heart breaking. Let’s def hope it will happen ☺️

[Waitingforourmiracle]

I'm so very sorry to read this, I know how heartbreaking it is to lose a pregnancy. Just know that you can and will get through this. If you need to take time to breakdown and just cry then do it - you need time to grieve and do not let anyone tell you how long that process should take x

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Waitingforourmiracle]

Thanks Hun. Hope all works out for u this time. We all deserve a ☺️

[Hannah143]

I’m so sorry to hear your news it’s just heartbreaking 💔 , you are right that there is hope for the future but it still hurts like hell. Sending you hugs 🤗 xxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Hannah143]

Thanks Hun. Yep def hope that try to hold onto. All plans n hopes are gone for now but sure return at some point 😕

[Cinderella5]

I'm so sorry! Thinking of you!xx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks x

[Tugsgirl]

So sorry. I’ve been there. It’s heartbreaking xx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Tugsgirl]

It is for us all a. 🙁

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Dreamingofbaby. Just read your post and obviously so very sorry to hear what has happened. To go from such a high to such a low is just unimaginable. Hope you’ve got lots support, as I know you will have everyone here to help you. If I can help at all, do get in touch. I pop on here often, even on days off until late. Try and get some early rest tonight. Thinking of you always. Diane

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to DianeArnold]

Thanks so much means a lot. Yep lucky to have support though no one knows n unsure where to start with that. I’ll figure it out. Just be tough with work now as support all women but stay strong I’ll try. Rest def needed. Thanks x

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to Dreamingofbaby]

It’s scary for you my dear girl, but hopefully it will go fairly smoothly for you. Nigh5 night. Diane xx

[hoping-for-the-best]

I’m so very sorry 😞 this process can be so cruel. Thinking of you xxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to hoping-for-the-best]

Def cruel indeed. Thank u ☺️

[Hope85]

Thinking of you! I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending big hugs xx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Hope85]

Thanks x

[Hidden]

So sorry xx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Hidden]

Thanks x

[Enaj51]

((Big hug to you))

So sorry xx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Enaj51]

Thanks need it indeed ☺️x

[270287]

I’m so sorry, I went though the exact same thing last year. Thinking of you x

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to 270287]

Awful isn’t it. Sorry u went through it too. Appears to happen a lot 😢

[270287 in reply to Dreamingofbaby]

Sending big hugs x

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry 😢.. my heart goes out to you. Truly heart braking . Big hugs to you and lots of love sending your way xxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Hun. Appreciate it x

[Hidden]

Oh no, I’m so sorry to read about ur bad news. It seems to have been a week of disappointing news on here. I hope you can come to terms with what has happened and when ur ready start planning for your next attempt. Thinking of u xx

[Kathy_t]

So sorry to hear this, I'm gutted for you. I'm sending lots of positive vibes and love your way. Hope this isn't an awful question to ask but what made you think growth had stopped before your scan? Keen to know what to look out for! Xx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Kathy_t]

Heya no worries. I was never certain of course was just wondering as did not have a lot of symptoms and know sounds strange but my dog didn’t appear to catch on either when thought she wud as know can sense it. Don’t think can def tell till scan though as everyone v diff.Thanks for ur positive vibes. Best wishes. Xx

[AliciaWill]

this is life. It is always unpredictable. All we need to do is to stay positive. I know it is a tough time for you. Stay positive and determined. I am sure success will be in your way. Sending you lots of positive vibes and love.

[Fionamarie]

So very sorry for you loss it’s 💔 to get so far, it’s cruel and so unfair big hugs and best wishes for the future xxx

[Becky179]

Oh I'm so sorry to hear this. I also found out at our 12 week scan in Jan that baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks. We lost one 3 years ago at exactly the same size, at exactly the same time, a week before Christmas. I felt broken, however I'm now feeling "better" & due to have our FET Next week hopefully.

I wish you all the best for what ever happens in the future. Xx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to Becky179]

Sorry to hear about ur loss too. Is heartbreaking n def relate to feeling broken 😔good luck with ur FET. Can only but continue to try and fight a. I’ll get there one day like we all will I hope 😊

[Becky179 in reply to Dreamingofbaby]

Xxx

[emzlou25]

Ooooh babez am so so sorry for ur loss ive been through this twice now and its so unfair...the hurt the confusion its so unreal...feel free 2 pm if u need a friend xxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to emzlou25]

Thanks Hun. Def unfair. Oh twice for u too that cruel 😔 I’m on way to early pregnancy unit now to see what happens next. Def v hard at b mo as know u can imagine. Thanks for offer. Will try pm u later x

[emzlou25]

Both time mine happened they told me just 2 go home and wait for it to happen naturally...the worst worda they could say just wait for ur baby to pass 😦...babez i advise u do get some pain killers am not sure how far alog u are but i was only 7 wks and 8 wks with both of mine and even tho so small the pain was still so strong its like u have contractions for hours....i wish u well and stay strong xxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to emzlou25]

Bless u that does sound harsh. Mine is 6 weeks think n 7 weeks when found out so similar. How long did it take for it to happen naturally if don’t mind me asking? Sounds scary n v painful for u to. Not looking forward to it emotionally n physically😔

[emzlou25]

Mine took 3 days to happen and lay on ur tummy when the pain starts it really helps...hopefully urs will just happens easy 4 u mine lasted 8 hours 😦 xxxx

[Dreamingofbaby in reply to emzlou25]

Thank u for u input. Sorry u had to go through that not nice. Hope u get to where u wanna be. Is a waiting game for me now 😕xx

[emzlou25]

Ooooh sorry babez the waitin is so painfull....u poorthin xxx

[emu2016]

Sending so much love x