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After my discharge with pink in it from when I wiped earlier I am now back from the hospital - saw a doctor there. She basically said to just keep an eye on any spotting and only worry if I start getting a lot of pain and heavy bleeding. She said there was tiny traces of blood in my urine but at 5+1 things are still implanting inside and that also if they dip tested every pregnant woman 50% would have blood in their urine so she said that it's not significant that there are traces in my urine.

She wouldn't do a scan as at 5 weeks they wouldn't see a heartbeat yet so no point so she said wait 6 days and then maybe book a private scan for reassurance if worried. The good news is since that one wipe at 1pm I've had no other blood at all but all of this doesn't take away the worry. I'm not getting any cramps which is good but I do have lower back pain but then I've had that since a few days after transfer (but that is worrying me again now as it's one of the warning signs if it is accompanied by heavy bleeding and cramping)

So basically we just have to wait and hope now. Please all keep everything crossed for us, I cannot lose another baby ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

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AllWeNeedIsluv

I'm praying hard for you hun I'm sure all is fine big hugs ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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Tugsgirl

I just commented on your other post but obviously Iโ€™ve seen this now. I hope you can take a little bit of reassurance from the hospital. Iโ€™ll keep my fingers crossed for you xx ๐Ÿคž

Sorry to hear this - I can totally relate. I'm 8+5 and had 2 bleeds earlier in the week (bright red blood), and pink discharge today. I had a scan on Wednesday, after the 2nd bleed, and bean was happy, growing well and the heartbeat was strong. My GP has advised total rest for a week. I'm scared every time I go to the loo, I'm guessing you feel the same too. I hope it eases for you soon, big hugs xx

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Me too, itโ€™s so scary isnโ€™t it. I have to wait til Thursday for my scan and panic every time I go to the toilet! x

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I'm with you on that. Big hugs xx

Spotting again on my pad looks brownish pink ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Waitingforourmiracle

Awww hun, this is so tough are you on progesterone ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜˜

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Waitingforourmiracle in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

I'm not on progesterone it was a natural fet

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Waitingforourmiracle

Awww hun you might need some? They do say dark is old I hope it is nothing to worry about hun, thinking of you

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Waitingforourmiracle in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

When I first found I was pregnant the clinic said my body would be producing enough. I'm going to call them tomorrow to update them and see what they say

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Eliza28 in reply to Waitingforourmiracle

Thatโ€™s good though as when it goes darker itโ€™s old blood. The nurse told me that when I called after my bleed this week. Mine was bright red to start and then a brownish colour. She said as long as it doesnโ€™t get heavier then itโ€™s not a concern. Try to stay calm, I know itโ€™s hard as Iโ€™m having to do the same x

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Waitingforourmiracle in reply to Eliza28

So scared. We are at hubby's siblings house they are all here for dinner and I just can't eat so have come upstairs and once he's had his dessert we are going to go home - just think we need to ride the next few days out at home on our own with no pressure to feel we need to see anyone. Trying to stay positive as still no pain but this is so scary after having lost a baby before

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Eliza28 in reply to Waitingforourmiracle

Us I can imagine. Iโ€™ve been home for a couple of days since too, the nurse advised that mentally itโ€™s prob best and to rest up is a good thing so do that and just have some time to yourself. Try to stay positive x

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Waitingforourmiracle in reply to Eliza28

Thank you for your kind words - just been reading your post too. It's helpful to hear from someone who's been through it but I just want the next few days to go by without more bleeding then we can have the scan and relax a bit

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Eliza28 in reply to Waitingforourmiracle

Exactly that, Iโ€™m feeling exactly the same.

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Emmanev1 in reply to Waitingforourmiracle

I had this with my little girl whoโ€™s 4 now. I didnโ€™t know I was pregnant at the time and Iโ€™d had a few heavy weekends drinking as I was unaware I was pregnant at the time. I obviously thought it was down to me drinking I was 6 weeks at the time thought my period was playing up went to see the doctor who said no youโ€™re pregnant and it was a common symptom in early pregnancy. Try not to worry and every day is one day closer to your baby xx

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Waitingforourmiracle in reply to Emmanev1

Thank you for sharing your story. I'm kind of living hour by hour (or wee by wee!) at the moment and am grateful for each hour that passes with no further blood

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XxjustmexX

This happening to me now and itโ€™s making me so nervous am only 5+1 so no would be to early to scan ๐Ÿ™ xx

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Waitingforourmiracle in reply to XxjustmexX

I was 5+1 as well (5+2 now). That's the worst bit that it's too early to scan, any other stage in the pregnancy we could go for a scan to get it checked :(

Hopefully we'll make it to Friday without any further problems and then have a private scan

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XxjustmexX

Am bleeding quite a bit now so donโ€™t even think Iโ€™ll make it to a scan xx

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Waitingforourmiracle in reply to XxjustmexX

Oh lovely I have everything crossed for you that it stops and is just normal early pregnancy spotting/bleeding

So I put a pad on before I went to bed last night (at about 8.45pm as I was so drained/scared)

Well I've woken up to a clean pad, no blood at all.

I've been for a wee just now and when I wiped the tissue was a very yellow colour so I think that was wee and no blood. I went a couple of times in the night and no blood then either. Not going to get too excited but I'm also going to allow myself to feel a little relieved that there's been no blood now for over 12 hours. I am keeping myself on bed rest today though with Netflix for company.

Thank you to those who have replied and reassured me it means so much I can't explain

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