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No more heartbeat in week 8 but not giving up!

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3/4 embryos, I managed to succeed 1 in February. Unfortunately, I just found out yesterday there is no more HB. But I foresee this coming as doctor already told me HB is relatively slow and embryo didn't grow as it should be. I was hoping miracle can happen but it didn't. But on the other hand, I feel relief to know the result although it wasn't a good one. I look on positive side that at least ICSI worked on me, and I'm not giving up just yet. I will continue to eat healthy, exercise regularly and look for next opportunities. I'm already 41, and don't know how much time I still have. But I do think being a woman, we need to be tough to handle all the stress and emotional roller coaster. I have to say going to hospital every week sometimes x2 a week is very tiring. I kept telling myself persistence is way to succeed. So ladies don't give up just yet. Have a nice weekend!

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JULIETJAM

I am so sorry to hear your loss at this early stage. I wish I could say anything to make things better but there is nothing. This morning I read something which was very nice “While God may not take away our pain quickly, we can rest in the peace He provides and the assurance that He hears our cries” may He grant you peace at this time. Lots of love 💕 x

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Amanda86

Very sorry to hear this but lovely to hear your positive attitude. Sending love your way ❤️ Xxx

So sorry to read your news and thank you again for taking the time to respond to my post. If I can be half as positive as you then I will be very happy xxx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi QQLO. So sorry to hear this. Time for you to recover and I hope you've got plenty of support just now. Your clinic will have learned much about you've reacted to treatment, and can alter the drugs if needed next time. Thinking of you.

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genten

So sorry to hear of your loss.

It is great that you're going to keep preparing your body for the next cycle when you are ready.

It is a hard journey and the hospital trips definitely are tiring especially when working around them too.

Paitetence really is needed but miracles do happen. You will have your miracle, you've just got to keep going.

I'll be praying for you xx

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kumkums

Sorry for your loss. You are strong and I wish you the best.

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Cinderella5

So sorry to hear your pregnancy has time to an end, very sorry for your loss. I am however glad that you seem to be at peace knowing where you are now. Look after yourself and give yourself time to grieve. Sending hugs xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

So sorry lovely, this is tough, take time out for yourself hun be kind and give yourself some tlc, I'm loving the posotivity in your voice hun, remember let it out don't keep it in you'll end up erupting trust me hun iv been there. Big hugs and lots of love, always here if you need a chat 💗💗🤗😘😘

I’m sorry to hear it didn’t work out this time but well done for your positive attitude x

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Tugsgirl

Very sorry to hear of your loss. You have a positive attitude that I hope will see you through until it’s your time xx

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Princes14

Your positive attitude is inspiring! Persistence is certainly the key. Thinking of you 💕

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