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Hi all you strong ladies, I had fet 6 days ago, a 5 d blasts and the past few days had low back pain and then gave loose stools tmi I know. Does this mean I am out? I'm not testing until next week as advised but today is the first day I can't stop going to the toilet. I urinate a lot, am exhausted have low dull cramping but I think it's more my low back pain. When I got pregnant three yrs ago which did end in miscarriage I also had diarrhoea then. Any help or advice welcome. Good luck all of you on your journey x

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Lilli79

Hi Crowpingpongg please don't worry. Diarrhoea is usually just a side effect of hormones being all over the place. I don't think it means anything in particular. I had a mix of constipation and diarrhoea in my 2WW. All the symptoms you've said sound positive. Good luck for your OTD, the 2ww is soooo difficult! xxx

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Crowpingpongg in reply to Lilli79

Thanks lilli79 your words are reassuring. I do hope it works. I know I need to stop analysing every little symptom. The tww is just the worst part of all this treatment. Xx

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Lilli79 in reply to Crowpingpongg

It's ok I know how you feel, I had a miscarriage last year so it's so hard this time around not to be freaked out by everything. I'm currently 8 weeks and I'm nervous about every twinge etc. It's annoying the hell out of me! xx

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Crowpingpongg in reply to Lilli79

Oh wow congrats to you. This is amazing news. Gives me such hope. Sat here feeling really uncomfortable that I don't know if I can use anything or take anything in case it causes harm. I have my thought with you that this one continues xx

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Lilli79 in reply to Crowpingpongg

Thank you & I really hope that you are successful, positive thinking all the way! ❤️

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Crowpingpongg in reply to Lilli79

Yes for sure, we both have a very similar history and are the same age. I started fertility last June also that didn't work so I'm hoping this does. We have unexplained fertility also. Positivity x

Hi had exactly the same as you described and got a positive and live birth. I was on the loo so much that it felt impossible but it clearly wasn't.

So I hope this is a good sign for you. xx

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Thank you for your lovely kind reassurance it's good to know it's not the end until I do my test next week. Xx

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smithy1986

you could just be experiencing these symptoms due to nerves? I wouldn't think too much in to it, far too much stress! just remember you put every feeling you get under a magnifying glass during your 2ww, try your very best to stay positive hun xxx

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Crowpingpongg in reply to smithy1986

Thank you I have been stressed today so I think that's probably why. I should maybe not eat too much fruit too xx

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smithy1986 in reply to Crowpingpongg

Do whatever you need to, to make yourself feel better :) xx

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Tugsgirl

I don’t think it means you’re out at all. Good luck xx

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Crowpingpongg in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you, been reading your story and I'm praying for a better time for you xx

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Dunla

Don’t give up hope. The hormones can definitely give you lots of unpleasant symptoms during the 2ww. I know the progesterone did effect my toilet routine, to put it delicately! Keep up the fluids and try to take things a bit easier if you can. I always feels exhausted at this time too. Listen to your body and if you can have a lie down, go for it. Best of luck for a positive outcome 😘 xx

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Cinderella5

Hang on in there, there's still plenty of time so you're not out yet!xx

Hello, try not to worry. I had similar symptoms and got my BFP - I'm now nearly 7 weeks. It's such a stressful time, and it's so hard not to symptom watch, but try and relax as much as you possibly can. Good luck xx

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