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It’s over 💔

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Just had it confirmed that we have lost our little miracle. My daughter is still bleeding and her levels are below 1 now. Devastated

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Carolynhen66

I’m so sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you & your daughter ❤️

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Gillyc1 in reply to Carolynhen66

Thankyou xx

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E_05

I’m so sorry, it’s truly heartbreaking. Thinking of you all x

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Gillyc1 in reply to E_05

Thankyou xx

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Jjl84

So sorry to hear that. Thoughts are with you. It will take time but your daughter will get stronger x

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Gillyc1 in reply to Jjl84

I know thankyou xx

So sorry to hear this 💔

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Thankyou xx

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Leo2017

So sorry to hear this!! It’s such an unbelievably cruel journey!! 💔x

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Gillyc1 in reply to Leo2017

Not half. Thankyou xx

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Penders

I'm so sorry to read this. Sending great big hugs to you both xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to Penders

Thankyou xx

I'm so sorry to hear this have been thinking of you the last few days and was hoping all would be ok xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to

It’s been like a bad dream xx

So sorry. I'd been thinking if you both, it's so cruel that it has ended this way xx

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Gillyc1

Thankyou . It is awful xx

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sanchia46

Really sorry. Hugs x

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Gillyc1 in reply to sanchia46

Thankyou xx

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katya38

Hi gilly so sorry to hear this. Think the support you ve provided your daughter is amazing. Hopefully her next cycle will be her time xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to katya38

Thankyou xx

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Gillyc1

I’ve actually set up a go fund me page tonight for them because they want to have another go. It has wiped us out financially this year paying for it so hopefully we will manage to do it again sooner rather than later . Thankyou everyone for your support these last few weeks xx

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Lou7744

Am so sorry to read this. It’s been an emotional rollercoaster for you all. Fingers crossed 🤞 for the next round xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to Lou7744

Thankyou xx

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TTCs

So sorry 💔 xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to TTCs

Thankyou xx

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Lolepops

I am so very sorry to you and your daughter xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to Lolepops

Thankyou xx

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Fredaflintstone

So sorry to hear this. Lots of love to you all xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to Fredaflintstone

Thankyou xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

I'm so sorry hun. Iv been there several times it's hard. It hurts and she's blessed to have you by her side. Your a lovely mum. Keep strong for her she'll, get through, this and she will have a child one day. Take care. Sorry once again xxx big hugs xxx

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Gillyc1 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thankyou you so much. Ya know you can speak to someone about what has happened but no one will ever understand like the ladies do in this site . Thankyou all of you xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Gillyc1

That's true. Ppl need to have walked the path or have great empathy skills. She'll get through this hun I promise xxx

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Gem1982

I’m sorry to hear this, it is so unfair. You are being an amazing Mum which will help your daughter loads. My mum has been my rock on this journey and In the dark times it means everything. Keep strong and don’t give up x x

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Gillyc1 in reply to Gem1982

Thankyou xx

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Pookymama

I'm so very sorry. Sending love, hugs and strength to you all at this sad time xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to Pookymama

Thankyou xx

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Beebeestar

I’m so sorry Gillyc1, I really hope she gets better soon. You have been a great support to your daughter. She’s truly very lucky to have you. I wish her and her closest seeing her pain a speedy move forward after you take this all in...

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Gillyc1 in reply to Beebeestar

Thankyou xx

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Amanda86

So sorry. Thinking of your daughter and all the family at this sad time 🙁 xxx

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Gillyc1 in reply to Amanda86

Thankyou xx

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Tugsgirl

Truly sorry. I’ve been there three times now. It’s a devastating thing. I know you’ll look after her. Make sure someone’s looking after you too xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to Tugsgirl

Thankyou. All our friends have been amazing xx

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tiger-cub

Extremely sorry but I've also bee there twice . No words can ease d pain

Take rest xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to tiger-cub

Thankyou xx

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Gillyc1

Would you believe someone has just said to her on fb that she doesn’t think she was actually pregnant, I’m shaking with rage xx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Gillyc1

Omg. Unfortunately people never cease to amaze me. Tell your Daughter to get rid of this toxic person off Facebook and out of her life xx

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tiger-cub

Well sadly that's how insensitive people have become these days . I would Segway she comes off fb for a while . And i wouldn't even discuss stuff like this in fb.

So sorry to read this, love to you all 😔

Did they manage to get any extra sperm to freeze when they did the op?

Thinking of you all xxx

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lauren3189

So sorry to hear this sending love and hugs your way xx

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Gillyc1 in reply to lauren3189

Thankyou xx

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