I’m due to start my first round of IVF in January and I can’t wait to start now, but there’s a lovely lady in my office who has announced she’s 16 weeks pregnant and now all I hear are the baby talks. Everyone asking “have you got any cravings?” “How are you feeling?” “What bits have you got for the baby” etc and it really pulls at my heart strings.
I feel guilty because she is so lovely, but when she told me that she came off the pill and fell pregnant within 3 months, I just felt like I wanted the ground to swallow me up
My friends at work know about my situation and my devastating miscarriages, but this person doesn’t. I want to be friendly and get involved with the conversations, but every time I hear the talks it just makes me feel so shitty. X