Can anybody help me.
Myself and my partner have been referred to a fertility clinic.
We have been advised we will probably have a six month wait for our first appointment.
In the mean time I have blood tests and a scan. Sadly my partner is infertile - so the only way we have a chance of getting pregnant is through ivf However I have bee been pregnant in a previous relationship twice, and both times I miscarried the last time I even found out I was expecting twins.
I feel like this should be a new and exciting chapter for me and my partner, but I’m too frightened about going through the loss for the third time.
My partner is trying to be positive & I know I should be too, but in all honestly, I really can’t see it happening for us.
I’m frightened my negative mind could spoil things for us, but then if I was to get my hopes up and then it didn’t work the disappointment will just be unbearable
Has anybody else overcome these kind of emotions? Are they normal?
Can anyone Give me advise on how best to Chanel my negativity?
I suppose when we put ourselves through this process we open ourselves up to possible heartbreak..
but if we don’t try then we will never know.