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Test day - BFN 😢

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Morning all,

So our first round of IVF has resulted in a BFN this morning. We don’t even have any frosties left. So it’s back in a few weeks for round 2.

First of all though, I’m gonna get married and have an amazing honeymoon and who knows, maybe we’ll be blessed with a miracle. We’ve had the worst week with this news and also our cat got hit by a car and passed away on Monday😢

Things can only get better 🤞 xx

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Sunshine09

So sorry hunny ,but with that positive attitude will bring you everything you wish for, keeping everything crossed for you, and have a beautiful wedding xx💋

in reply to Sunshine09

Thank you xx

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MrsG1982

I'm so sorry to hear that. My first round also failed. Please don't worry. Focus on your wedding and rest lots on your honeymoon so you are refreshed and ready for round two ❤️

in reply to MrsG1982

Thanks MrsG. I’m sorry to hear about ur failed round too. It’s really tough eh?! Best of luck to you to for the next round 😘 xx

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sunshineyellow

So sorry to hear this xx

in reply to sunshineyellow

Thank you x

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Fredaflintstone

So sorry to hear this - it’s so heart breaking. Don’t give up hope though. Ours appears to have worked second time round after a top grade blasto didn’t take first time around. Enjoy your wedding and try again afterwards. Sending big hugs xxxx

in reply to Fredaflintstone

Thanks, here’s to 2nd time lucky?! 🤞 x

So sorry. Take care x

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Thank you x

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Dream32

I'm so sorry to hear this. Enjoy your wedding and honeymoon. X

in reply to Dream32

I’m very much looking forward to chilling out. Thank you xx

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Tugsgirl

Sorry. Bfns are hard.

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and have a lovely honeymoon xx

in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you - it’s so hard 😢 Onwards and upwards x

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Lou9

So sorry to hear your news. So devastating about your cat too. Thinking of you. Xx

in reply to Lou9

We miss her so much😢 xx

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Lou9 in reply to

I'm so sorry. I totally understand how you feel. One of my dogs, who was honestly my soul mate, died unexpectedly a year past in February and I have never felt sadness quite like it. Although time doesn't heal the sadness, I can think about her and how wonderful she was and still quite often feel her presence. Sending you a hug. Xx

in reply to Lou9

That’s so lovely. She was called Willow and we’re going to plant a Willow tree in memory of her. Poor wee toot was only young as well. I do feel your pain. It’s still very raw for us for now but I know time will heal us. Thank you xx

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Lou9 in reply to

What a beautiful idea and a very fitting tribute. Take care xx

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DC13

I am so sorry to read your post. I am glad you have some great positives to look forward to and that really helps when we are on this rollercoaster. Take care of yourself.

in reply to DC13

Thank you - a roller coaster is a good description! Its hard going xx

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E_05

Sorry to read this, hope you have an amazing wedding xx

in reply to E_05

Thank you - 5 weeks to go 😘 xx

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ICSIRose

Really sorry to read this, look after yourself and YES enjoy every second of your wedding and honeymoon!!!!! all the best 💝✨🍀 xx

in reply to ICSIRose

Thank you! I’m gonna try put this week outta my mind the best I can xx

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ICSIRose in reply to

It’s difficult isn’t it! I did okay until my Hubby went back to work today and I’ve been at home on my own... 😔😪! Thinking of you my lovely xxx

in reply to ICSIRose

Yes, that’s the worst, when u have time to think! I’m trying to keep my mind as busy as possible. Best of luck to you on ur journey too 😘 xx

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Penders

So sorry that you had a bfn and about your cat that is sad. Have a fantastic wedding and enjoy your honeymoon xxx

in reply to Penders

Thanks Penders. Our luck can ONLY get better 🤞 xx

Sorry to read this. It sounds like you have some lovely things to look forward to until you're ready to try again. Hope you're ok xx

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Thank you xx

So sorry to hear this, sending u hugs x

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Thanks Cocker_crazy - ur dogs are gorgeous! Xx

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thank you 😊 x

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C_L_A_I_R_E

So sorry to hear this news!

I wish you a very amazing wedding and honeymoon! You deserve it! And 🤞🏻for that newly wed miracle!!! X

in reply to C_L_A_I_R_E

Fingers crossed for our wee miracle. Thank you xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Awwww hun. So sorry you've had such a horrible week.

Wishing you a lovely wedding and an amazing honeymoon hopefully a little sticky bean not far behind.

Lots of love

💗🤗😘

in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Yup, worst week ever. Here’s to a far more positive week next week and thereafter xx

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Amanda86

So sorry you for a bfn and also so sorry about your cat. What a horrible week for you 🙁

Hope you have an amazing wedding and honeymoon wirh a miracle baby at the end 🤞🤞 xxx

in reply to Amanda86

Thanks Amanda. I really do appreciate the kind words xx

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Scarlett13

So sorry ❤️❤️❤️❤️

in reply to Scarlett13

Thank you Scarlett xx

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vic77

I am so sorry for your losses just awful. Hopefully your wedding will be a lovely distraction. Take care xx

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ClarabGlasgow

Sorry that hear this I recently had same result had really hoped for Frosties too we got 2 eggs fertilise and only 1 made it. I just wanted to say have a fabulous wedding & hoping for a honeymoon surprise for you xx

in reply to ClarabGlasgow

Thanks Clara. It’s a tough journey and this time wasn’t to be unfortunately. Good luck to u 🤞 x

Terribly sorry.have a fantastic wedding.the time away from Ivf talk will do you some good.

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Yeah ur probably right. It’s all consuming at times, isn’t it?. Hoping for our miracle 🤞 xx

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