FET today AT LAST!!!! โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ - Fertility Network UK

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FET today AT LAST!!!! โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ

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I've just had my fet today!!

We had to be at the clinic for 1.30 and at 11.30 the embryologist called to say it had thawed perfectly and was ready and just sitting waiting for me - at which point I burst into tears down the phone like a total lunatic!! But it's been a long process for us to finally get to this point so I was feeling a bit overwhelmed I think.

Cried again once I got there- lunatic!

Cried again once in the theatre room and got given a photo of our embryo to keep - triple lunatic.

I've not cried for ages about this, in fact my other half has joked that we should keep me on all the meds even when not doing ivf as he says I've been more balance on them than normal! Cheeky git. But he's right! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

So for all the tears today I felt like such a wally although obviously all the nurses were amazing! I think I just finally got a bit overwhelmed with it all and I still can't believe it's actually happened and after all the bumps in the road we have finally had our first (and hopefully only needed) embryo transferred. I was crying tears of pure happiness, joy, and mostly relief I think.

We officially started this process 10th October 2013 and we have only just now, today, had our first embryo transfer done. In the meantime I've had to have 5 different surgeries in preparation for this and then finally our ivf cycle, not without its own hiccups and postpones for more surgeries etc. So I can't express the joy and relief of getting to this point AT LAST!!!!!

Now for the tww....... ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

Praying for positives ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ xxxx

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C_L_A_I_R_E profile image
C_L_A_I_R_E

Congrats on the transfer! wishing you a positive in 2 weeks ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿ€

in reply to C_L_A_I_R_E

Thank you so much!! I'm lying in bed thing positive thoughts and trying to send good vibes to my womb ๐Ÿ˜‚ all this ivf ha sent me crazy ๐Ÿ˜œ xx

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C_L_A_I_R_E in reply to

That's all I do! I'm still growing follies! I hear myself saying 'common follies!' ๐Ÿ€๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป

in reply to C_L_A_I_R_E

Hahaha I was the same, I used to find myself rubbing my belly and talking to them as well ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ my other half used to laugh at me.....but then he'd do it as well!! ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜† xx

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E_05

What a journey you've had - congrats on having your transfer today. Lots of luck for the 2ww ๐Ÿคžxx

in reply to E_05

Thank you so much! I can't believe we have to wait another 2 weeks at the end ๐Ÿ™„ as if this process isn't hard enough ๐Ÿ˜‚ xx

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E_05 in reply to

I know it really is unfair isn't, think somehow this is one of the hardest bits to xx

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Sa_Ra

Wow what a journey ๐Ÿ˜ญ Wishing you all the best xxx

in reply to Sa_Ra

Thank you lovely โค๏ธ xxx

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Amanda86

Congratulations ๐Ÿ™‚ It's such an amazing feeling isn't it having your transfer? Very overwhelming!

You've had such a long journey. I'm keeping everything crossed for you that you get your BFP ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ€ xxx

in reply to Amanda86

Thank you so much ๐Ÿ˜Š I want to now let myself get really excited but at the same time I don't. Still torn with the emotions but time will tell!! I never thought this day would come so even if it doesn't work this time I feel better about everything anyway and moving forwards xxx

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mupcake

Praying for you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป Good luck โ˜˜๏ธ

in reply to mupcake

Thank you โค๏ธ xx

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sunshineyellow

Oh wow you've been through a lot. Don't worry about the crying I'm sure they're used to it. I balled in front of my acupuncturist last week and he said it happens all the time ๐Ÿ˜‚

Wishing you the best of luck for the 2ww and a positive outcome. We've got our frozen transfer on Friday at midday so just a couple of days behind you. Hope you're managing to relax and got some nice things planned xxx

in reply to sunshineyellow

Eeek how exciting!! Good luck with it!! It certainly is an experience ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ being laid up on the bed legs a Kimbo- face height of the poor doctor ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ™ˆ as we were leaving the clinic and checking we had everything my other half said 'have you left anything?' To which I replied 'only my dignity in the theatre room' ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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sunshineyellow in reply to

Haha I remember it from last time. Almost have to laugh as the whole thing is so serious in there, but how can it be with our legs like that!!! Will keep in touch!! Xx

in reply to sunshineyellow

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ I know!! It's awful lol xx

in reply to sunshineyellow

Do let us know how you get on xx

Wishing you lots of luck. Xz

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Thank you xx

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tish44

Wishing you lots of luck ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป xxx

in reply to tish44

Thank you xx

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Tugsgirl

I always well up at transfer, it's a magical time. Good luck for the tww ๐Ÿ€ xx

in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you so much! Good to see I'm not alone ha xx

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TTCs

Ah an exciting time for you! I would have been the same with the tears no doubt! Best of Luck to you, hope you get your BFP xxx

in reply to TTCs

Thank you so much โค๏ธ xx

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cls37

Wishing you lots of luck xxxx

in reply to cls37

Thank you xxx

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Leesara

I will keep my fingers crossed for you oxo

in reply to Leesara

Thank you so much xx

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emiraven62

Wishing the best of lucks! xxxxx

in reply to emiraven62

Thanks ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ xx

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Lynnr54

Good luck. Easier said than done but try and relax now for the next 2 weeks!

in reply to Lynnr54

Definitely easier said than done haha! Thank you ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ xxx

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CountryCat

Everything - the works - crossed for you xxx

in reply to CountryCat

Thank you!! โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ xx

Good Luck xxx

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Thanks ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ xxx

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Jaky76

Sending loads of positive vibes and wishes... Good luck ๐Ÿ€ got everything crossed ๐Ÿคž xxx ๐Ÿ’‹ xx

in reply to Jaky76

Thank you! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ xx

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Bluebelle1

Ah its an amazing feeling isn't. Getting all the way to that stage where it actually happens. Before we started treatment I was so naive to the process and just thought if you have IVF then its quite straight forward but as we learnt every cycle is different and if you get to transfer stage then thats an achievement in its self with everything that could potentially go wrong along the way!

Wishing you all the best for the 2WW. Try and stay happy and positive๐Ÿ’ซ xx

in reply to Bluebelle1

Thank you so much! Yeah I think that's why I was crying so much! I just couldn't believe we were finally there! Crazy. It's been a particularly crazy couple of years and to finally be at this point is like OH MY GOD! We made it!! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ so fingers crossed it continues with a health pregnancy ๐Ÿคฐ๐Ÿผ I'll keep everyone updated xxx

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Elou81

What a journey you have had. I'm not surprised you were emotional! Wishing you the very best of luck X

in reply to Elou81

Thank you!! I've pulled myself together for now ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ โค๏ธ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ xx

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kelsbels88

Wishing you lots of luck for the 2ww...hoping for a positive xx

in reply to kelsbels88

Thank you so much! ๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ xx

Huge congratulations on getting over the hurdles and you know what rock those tears and panda eyes ๐Ÿ‘€ ๐Ÿผ

Welcome to the TWW, where your sanity will all but disappear!! Everything crossed for you xxx

in reply to

Hahaha thank you so much!!! ๐Ÿ’• It's certainly been a rollercoaster so far!! Where abouts are you in the process? xx

in reply to

It is a complete rollercoaster, take care of yourself this is your time now everything else is irrelevant xxx Sadly after 3 failed IVF attempts and 7 years of trying for our family we are moving onto DE soon I'm happy that we have tried and are now looking into other avenues xxx

in reply to

Oh I'm sorry it hasn't worked for you โค๏ธ it is such a crazy be long process well done for doing it so many times!!!! You're a strong woman! ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ it's hard. Good luck with exploring new avenues, please keep us updated as to how you get on as it's always helpful to be informed and learn from others ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’• xxxx

Good luck and hopefully this 2ww will be as quick as possible for you xx๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ€๐Ÿคž

in reply to

Thank you ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผโค๏ธ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ xxx

Wonderful news! Wishing you lots of luck xx

in reply to

Thank you ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผโค๏ธ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ xxx

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N_M_10

Wow what a journey. Wishing you all the luck in the world. xx

in reply to N_M_10

Thank you so much ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผโค๏ธ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿผ xxx

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abcgirl

good luck! What a journey and hope you get the result that makes it all worth it ๐Ÿคž

in reply to abcgirl

Thank you so much!! Period is due today but hasn't arrived yet.... but since starting ivf they've been absolutely crazy and all over the place anyway ๐Ÿ™„ so finger crossed it stays away!! xx

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N_M_10

Good luck xxx

in reply to N_M_10

Thanks xx

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