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Oakey80
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So I'm writing this from a&e as I started bleeding this afternoon...fresh blood and quite heavily too. That ain't good when you're 9wks pregnant!!

I haven't got cramps as such but I feel very much like af is about to start (pressure in my abdomen/light headed etc)...its not looking good folks ๐Ÿ˜ข

There's a 4hr wait to see someone so i'll let you know when I'm on the other side...

Much love to you all xxx

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Leesalou profile image
Leesalou

Fingers cross all is ok, hope they don't keep you waiting too long cx

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louisear

lots of ladies will tell you this but bleeding especially in early pregnancy is common. You probably know this already too so nothing anyone can say will help or reassure. Just wanted to send best wishes xx

Oh Oakey, I really hope you will be ok. My friend had a big bleed too, but was ok I so hope the same for you.

Thinking of you right now, lots of love to you and I hope you get seen very soon xxxxxxx

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Sunbeam123

Oh no this notification came up in my emails so I rushed over to here! My app talked about bleeding in pregnancy this morning and it says a quarter of women bleed and everything is fine! I am thinking about you, please keep us updated!!! X

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Hormomalmess

Hope all is ok and you get good news soon xx

Tugsgirl profile image
Tugsgirl

No! ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž I truly hope that everything is ok! Please please keep us posted and know that I'll be thinking of you xx

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LauraGU

๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป thinking of you xxx

Try not to panic, I had a bid bleed with bright red fresh blood and everything was ok it's very scary though. Hope everything turns out to be ok. Thinking of you xxx

Oh no Oakey I'm really sorry to hear that. I had a bleeding episode last weekend @4 weeks and it is absolutely terrifying so sorry you're having this especially this after seeing the heartbeat. I will keep everything crossed that this is just a blip and your baby is fine. Lots of women do bleed in early pregnancy ( it is scary but common) my GP said and have perfectly healthy babies. I had very heavy bleeding @7 weeks with my son. It is good there is no cramping that's a good sign. Thinking of you xoxo

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Strawb86

Oh Oakey ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ฃ keeping everything crossed for you and your little one xxx

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Fredaflintstone

Thinking of you xx

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ICSIBaby86

I'm so sorry to hear this ๐Ÿ˜ฐ thinking of you xxxxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Good luck hope everything is OK. X

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Gueritarubia

Oh dear, sorry to hear! I'm 17 weeks preggers now but 10 days ago I had quite a big bleed. Got an internal exam and two scans, and all good with bubba. Hope it's the same for you. Wish you strength and fingers crossed. Thinking of you!

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CountryCat

Oakey, I am thinking of you and sending much love xxx Hoping all will be well xxx

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7AVA

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that you're having a bleed but as others have said, I hope it's a pregnancy bleed and everything continues ok xxx

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stephanienissim

Hi Oakey, I pray things go well. Love xxxxx

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London7

My sister had a huge bleed with my nephew towards the end of her first trimester and it turned out absolutely fine. Thinking of you and sending the very best wishes that this too is just one of those terrifying but perfectly safe pregnancy bleeds. Xx

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hannahi

Thinking of you xxxxx

Thinking of you xx

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Kattalex1

Hope all ok Oakley... ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Wishing you luck xx

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PandaQueen

hope everything will be okay . Godbless xx

Hope all is ok and you get good news soon xx

Thinking of you lovely - take care xxx

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Hannah143

God so sorry to read your post, I hope by now you've been seen. I really hope everything is OK for you xxx

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Oakey80

Hi everyone....I've just post a separate update to make sure you all see it..but basically they couldn't help at all...not even a scan! So now I have to wait until next week and "hope" to get an appointment at the epu.

Thanks loads for all your messages of support...it means the ๐ŸŒ to me!

xxx

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Aleelilook in reply to Oakey80

Keeping my fingers crossed for you lovely xx perhaps go for a private scan for peace of mind? Can't believe they did nothing xxx

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Oakey80 in reply to Aleelilook

I know! They took a wee sample and bloods but did nothing with it...oh and they checked my blood pressure whoop-de-doo!...3hrs...3 blimmin hours I'll never get back ๐Ÿ˜ฃ I can't blame the doctor. He was really apologetic when he said they don't have anyone who could do it til next week xx

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Mariec7 in reply to Oakey80

Really will be thinking of you and hope you get some good news next week. Rest and try to stay positive. Reading some of the posts on here about bleeding in early stages of pregnancy give me hope xx

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Gem11

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Kelly-03

I hope everything is ok xx your in the right place x

Se99 profile image
Se99

I hope everything is ok, did they do an internal? x

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Oakey80 in reply to Se99

No they didn't do anything or give us any reassurance. ..Couldn't wait to get rid of us! I wouldn't bother if it happened again. I'm in limbo as the ivf clinic discharged us at 7.5wks but my 1sr midwife appointment isn't until 10.5wks (earliest I could get) The nhs us certainly a sorry state of affairs where I live ๐Ÿ˜ฉ xx

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Se99 in reply to Oakey80

That's terrible, I've suffered similar at weekends, its skeleton staff and no scans. My epu is good so maybe chase them up tomorrow and get them so see you, ask for an internal and a scan. Hopefully it's just a one off (which is really common) and it's a good sign things are getting better now. A check up will put your mind at rest until 12 weeks x

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Oakey80 in reply to Se99

I've just booked a private scan for tomorrow morning...I know it's a lot of money but at least you get a good service and it's done now...no need to spend the day fretting about getting an appointment xx

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TeamMonkey in reply to Oakey80

See your gp first thing Monday and get them to get you in at the epu! Mine did that and had a scan! You may even be able to call your epu today yourself? X

Oakey80 profile image
Oakey80 in reply to TeamMonkey

It's not open this weekend ๐Ÿ™ We booked a private scan for tomorrow now...Fed up with nhs! xx

So sorry, I hope you get better news than expected xx

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MimiSvet

praying everything will be allright ! be brave and think positiveeee!!!

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