My last remaining friend in my circle (other than me of course!) is looking like she's pregnant. She deserves it and she's lovely. I truly mean that. She's been ttc for a while (over a year) and doing her temps and opks and taking her supplements. I've been there for her every step of the way with advice on charting and ovulation, timing etc etc. She had an ectopic second half of last year. She has recently been diagnosed endo stage three and had a laparoscopy. She'd just started the ivf ball rolling. She's 38. Clearly the lap has been successful though because yesterday and today she's getting "pregnant" on tests. Other than her husband I'm the one she confides in because I've been giving her advice since day one when she started ttc. Now of course I'm happy for her, I think the world of her, but at the same time I am feeling even more sorry for myself. What if I am the last one? What if I'm the only one who never has a baby? The odd one out? Maybe I'll never get to join this exclusive club. Infertility makes you feel excluded from society sometimes but it's the worst thing to feel excluded from your friends too. It wasn't long ago when she was congratulating me and I was telling her how wonderful it would be if she was pregnant too so we could share it together. Now she may be and I may never be again 😞
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