Bad sings? Won't stand it...

[crlnbr]

I can't understand what's going on .. I feel slight shoulder pain and noticed some brown spotting yesterday .. Does somebody know what it may mean? I came across some information and it says that may be a trouble at an early stages of pregnancy .. and I'm really scared now. Can that happen to me again? My dh tries hard to calm me down.. and I really appreciate that. But the question remains .. should I go and see my doctor? or is it better to wait a few more days? There's only 3 more days left for my 2WW to come to an end and we'll find out if I'm pregnant or not.. And I suppose it would take even longer for me to make an appointment with my doc and then have him check me. That's awful not knowing what to do!..

[Byernblo]

I think you shouldn't have to wait for few days and it’s better to visit your Dr. try to take a pregnancy test right today. A bit difficult question but listen to your Husband and try to calm down. The nerves are the last assistants in this situation. U have a natural pregnancy? Or did you pass through IVF maybe having some problems with female health?

[crlnbr in reply to Byernblo]

Yep, that was an ivf.. and not the first one already.. I was writing about that a few days ago .. and every time there are failures .. And the problem is that I still can't see my doc whenever I want.. as for the pregnancy test that may be good idea .. though I'm afraid that may still be too early and there will be no use of it

[Byernblo in reply to crlnbr]

It really can be early to check before 12 days after transfer. But I don’t know what to suggest in this case. On what stage of your pregnancy did you usually have the miscarriages? How do doctors explain this?

I’m sorry I have not seen your previous post before. Do you use your own eggs for fertilization?

[crlnbr in reply to Byernblo]

Yep, these were my own eggs..we decided to do that one last time .. we are not lucky with them ..for some reason .. doctors say a lot of stuff and it sometimes differs a lot every time..as nothing seems to be proved by the analysis.. looks like they are trying my patience ..sorry, I may be exaggerating a bit.. everything's really getting on my nerves lately..

[Byernblo in reply to crlnbr]

Few days are behind and I want to ask you about your currently situation, how are you now?

Everything ok? You said that wasn’t your first IVF. But you were so anxious and even surprised. How were the previous cycles?

Please, response to me as you can

[crlnbr in reply to Byernblo]

yep.. a few days passed and those were very disturbing days.. those times it was really slightly different .. it was either BFN or early M/C .. that's why I don't know what to expect each time.. and finally it resulted in a loss again .. I'll write a bit more of the details details soon in a new post..

thanks for your concern .. hope the things are good with you xx

[Byernblo in reply to crlnbr]

I've fallen overboard and was absent for two weeks and I have missed a lot of information.

You wrote you'd create a new post I hope it consists of positive updates. Anyway if you get the notification of I’ve written to you please let me know.

Waiting for your any response

[SheriWell]

it's def to visit your doctor asap. no use of asking for advice on forums in case of emergency like this.

yet, I hope all is well, but still only doc can say what it really means

get better soon

[Lady_in_red]

even brown spotting when you'r pregnant isn't a good sign. believe me. i may be a sign of placental abruption which in its turn may lead to early miscarriage. believe me, I know what it's like. I hope you have already contacted your doc and everything's fine now

[crlnbr]

Thanks everyone for your support here... I do appreciate it a lot. Really helps sometimes having people to share your problems with, knowing you would be understood and get some advise.. Hope my brown spotting wan't that placental abruption the Lady-in-red mentioned here

[crlnbr]

The symptoms relieved next day and my nerves cooled down for a while. Though I did the pg test at home that very day.. it didn't show anything.. as it actually was expected .. I called my doc but he told nothing by phone and suggested to come and see him the next day. Luckily it was a private clinic and I am usually cared about well all the way down.. in the other case I could have waited for my appointment for quite a few days.. and then everything would be definitely lost.. So, underwent a row of analysis .. Hope to have some news asap