Heads in bits 😢

[vonny27]

Well since my bleed last Sunday I've been on the sofa with feet up the bleeding carried on until fri when it eventually stopped. Today I decided to go out for some shopping walked about 50 meters went to toilet and boom a massive bleed again. I'm so upset it's untrue. I've not got my scan till Wednesday but I feel it's over again surely I can't be so lucky twice. I just don't get why we have to suffer like this.

[misswinky34]

😞 can you not just go to EPU? At your local hospital? Any cramping? If your over 6 weeks now you fit the criteria for epu. I would head down there rather than torture yourself until Wednesday. Xxx

[vonny27 in reply to misswinky34]

I've had a little cramping misswinky34 but nothing major. It's stopped now the bleeding is still happening but it's got mild. Your probably right I should go i just can't face it at the moment. X

[Natalie28 in reply to vonny27]

I can under stand you not being able to face it right now iv had 5 early losses and you dread those words hcg levels are dropping but vonny it might not be that you need to get checked x

[vonny27 in reply to Natalie28]

My hospital won't do a scan they did a smear on me to see if my cervix were open or closed last week then booked me in for a ultrasound through the week which I didnt need as I had one at my own clinic. My ivf clinic will just tell me to wait till Wednesday if I ring them tmoz. I know I shouldn't put myself through all this but I can't help how I'm feeling. The cramping has come back. I just want to curl up and cry my eyes out but that's not going to help either. X

[Natalie28 in reply to vonny27]

I know exactly how you feel iv been there I hope it's just a little bleed and everything will be fine x

[vonny27 in reply to Natalie28]

So do I Natalie28 but I don't think I'm going to be that lucky. I'll see how I go through night if cramping gets worse might go to A&E tmoz. Sorry if I've brought up memories hun. Xx

[misswinky34]

Don't feel like your putting anyone out Hun at the hospital, you need to put yourself first. Stress won't do any good Hun. If you have an accessible EPU then go tonight or Tomoro Hun. That's what they are there for 😘Xxx

[Natalie28 in reply to misswinky34]

Don't be silly you haven't those memories never really go away any time you want to chat I'm here for you x

[vonny27 in reply to Natalie28]

Thanks Natalie28 x

[katya38]

It maybe feels bad but I've read a lot of stories about women bleeding heavily at the beginning. And stress could make it worse. Probably feels impossible bit try to relax and not think the worst. Good luck. I know you've been through a huge journey. Xx

[vonny27 in reply to katya38]

Thanks katya38 I'm trying to think along them routes. It's just so hard with all I've been through. It's worse just having to sit and wait. My hospital don't even have a EPU. I'm going to ring my clinic tmoz see if I can get a scan earlier than Wednesday. X

[Natalie28]

My sons wife started bleeding at 6 eeeks she went for a scan I went with her and was worried to look at the screen but then I heard them say there's the heart beat and there's was blood patches in her womb and they told her to prepare to miscarry but she didn't she kept bleeding but baby was fine he's now 5 months old I kept telling her once u see that heart beat the risk of miscarriage lowers I know that's not always 100% the case but most of the time it is you have to keep strong and I know it's hard but stay positive x

[vonny27 in reply to Natalie28]

Thank you for your reassuring words Natalie28 x

[sanj76]

I'm so sorry your suffering vonny.... hope everything is ok. Yes I think you should follow up with Clinic tomorrow. Our thoughts will be with you

[vonny27 in reply to sanj76]

Thanks sanj76 x

[Daisy-Mae]

Thinking of you at this difficult time and praying everything works out for you xxx