Hello ladies! My name is Julia, I am 37 years old. For a descent amount of time I used to live with my boyfriend and four years ago we finally decided to get married. As we went on our honeymoon we started trying to conceive. We wanted to have a baby from the start of our family, not that we didn’t try when fiancées but as we made our relationship official it was a question of time when we become parents. It’s now 4 years already as we started our journey. And at the beginning we were too careless and didn’t pay too much attention to our failed attempts. As one year went down I started thinking that something maybe wrong as I was not pregnant still. We went to a clinic and I was diagnosed with pcos. I started taking the medications and as no success was seen, I went through a surgery as I was told that I will definitely be able to get pregnant after the treatment. And now I am still here where we started, only with less amount of health and worth psychic condition, because I took everything badly..
After all the tests I’ve done, dr came to the conclusion that for me there are lots of risks when it comes to carrying a baby … Before that we considered going for an IVF treatment but due to so many risks we were advised to stick with a surrogacy option. And now we are seeking for one. We live in New York and for reasons are trying to find some suitable options abroad. If some of you can share with me your advices, it’d be awesome!
I feel tired and devastated but I try to not to lose hope. As I’m sitting at my office writing this post and surfing the internet looking for an exit.
Thank you for reading this! Xx