So it's been over a week since I had any bleeding. Got our second scan you tomorrow and this morning there's blood when I wipe again. Just sick of the worry stopping me from sleeping.
Just want November to get here. Feel like I'm the only one who has all this paranoia everyone else seems to get a BFP and stop worrying which also makes me worry about my negativity.
Worrying about work too if everything is still going ok I think perhaps I should rest more but it's not easy to reduce my hours.
Just feel sick to my stomach
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Hey my lovely
I am with you recently got our BFP after our 5th round and I am a bag of nerves. Constant knicker watching, constant sign spotting constant worry.
There is no way around it what will happen will happen. I assume if you are due in Nov you must be 7 weeks or more. Thinking ours will be due Dec if single or Nov if twins.
I am trying to take it in my stride but my first scan isn't til 23.4. I am still very early about 4w 3 days.
Hang in there honey try to enjoy the fact that you have precious cargo on board xx
Hi completely understand I'm in similar position re worry. I had my FET 9th March bfp 22nd March. However I then did a digital and that was negative so now convinced self it's fake stupid huh! I have resisted testing again and have viability scan 14th I dare not be excited. My boobs hurt, I'm cranky had twinge pains early on and have headaches that's it I'm willing symptoms on!! I have calculated I'm 7wks but not sure if done that wrong too!!
Try not to worry (easier said than done) as stress won't help.
I know exactly how you feel. I'm 8 + 6 weeks and wish I could fall asleep and wake up over 12!
It's a constant worry, over analysing every twinge and cramp. I just keep trying to tell myself I'm doing the best I can.
I had to have an additional scan last Friday due to spotting. Thankfully everything was OK. I wish I could say it's eased my mind but I don't think we can every fully relax until we meet our babies after all the difficulties we've had conceiving.
Hey darl it's so common I had bleeds and also on wiping and no a few others that did too. I had a bleed at 6 weeks scan couldn't find anything they just assumed it's prob a pool of blood in my cervix or a burst vessel due to a lot going on down there. I then had blood red and brown when wiping until 10 weeks. 12 weeks or happened again and stopped at 14 weeks.
It's so common babes try and relax. Trust me as I had no symptoms thebleeding was reassurance for me all was OK as I'd had so many scans. When it stopped I panicked!
Just been reading stuff on the internet I know I shouldn't but read something about how your cervix should feel during pregnancy. Decided to have a little feel and it felt like it does when you're on your period. Doesn't look good.
I'm waiting for my scan on the 18th and I am a worrier which doesn't help, we are bound to worry it's a long journey and I wish you lots of luck tomorrow and hope all goes well. Hope is what helps and just remember you have that and hopefully that may help you sleep because it's important to get some sleep. Take care xx
You are a not alone. I'm 20 weeks and have found it so hard as I constantly worry and over analyse everything. We have gone through so much to get to here that its only natural. My husband and mum worry about me worrying all the time but you can't just switch it off. You will be fine though I'm sure the baby is fine, lots of people have bleeding at start and throughout. Try to think positive. Take care x x
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