Think it's game over 😢😢

Well my OTD is Friday 4th but I am pretty confident it's game over, AF has started to show. We are obviously devastated and I will still test Friday but not holding out an hope 😢😢

[jam1982]

I'm so sorry, my OTD is Friday too but AF arrived yesterday! Tested today, just to stop my mind from working overtime, have been tild to carry on with the pessaries and call back on Friday after testing! Feel much better now I know it hasn't worked, can concentrate on getting over it and trying a FET soon I hope!

Big hugs! Xxx

[Hidden]

Hey button

I'm praying that your af hasn't come properly and that you could still get your bfp.

Massive hugs

Hang in there lovely xx

[liz1985]

Oh Honey...

I am so so sorry honey...could just be a show though big big hugs and fingers crossed its not af!!!!!!! awe honey this journey has been so tough on all of us take care of yourself sweetie xxxxxxxx

[Hidden in reply to liz1985]

Thanks Liz, but I am pretty certain it's AF it's been threatening to come for a few days x

[Hidden]

We don't have any frozen ones, so back to square one. Just feel emotionally drained 😥

[liz1985 in reply to Hidden]

exactly same as us love we have no frozen ones either ..chin up honey maybe they will fix treatment better next time give you better chance thinking of you i know how heartbreaking it is xxxx

[Lamb82]

I'm so sorry. This is just so tough. Thinking of you. X

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear this Button, this whole process just sucks at times. I hope if it is AF you get some feedback at your next appointment that can be taken on board in future cycles xx

[Kimmy2016]

Thinking of you, really hope it's not your AF. Have you done a test yet? Fingers crossed for you xx

[Hopeful2016]

Button... You have been on my mind and in my thoughts sweetie, dont give up hope just as yet , wait till you take the test and seeing is believing! Although our instincts are vital but they can go wrong sometimes!

Wish you all the luck and lots of love!

[Cinderella5]

So sorry to hear this! Look after yourself!!

[Kat9lives]

Don't give up hope. There is still a chance no matter how small that it isn't your af. Wishing you all the hope and luck and baby dust in the world lovely. Xx

[Daisy32]

I have been thinking about you these last couple of days, and was really hoping it would be a success for you. I hope it is not your AF, however if it is know there are people who are there for you xx

[emu2016]

Big hugs. Big hope. Try not to get to down until you know for sure. The body is a crazy thing. Look how we're all here! x

[Georgina78]

So sorry to hear this, still hoping it's not actually af but your body changing. Big hugs to you Hun xxx

[kc21]

So sorry hun xxx I definately under estimated how emotional this process would be x however they would have learnt from this treatment and make the medication work better for u next time xxxx keep your chin up ... It will happen this was just atrial run xxx

[Hollibob]

It's never easy....I hope it's not af x

[Hidden]

Thanks everyone did a test this morning just to confirm what we knew and it was negative. We are both gutted but just going to take some time out get back to whatever normal is before we go through this gruelling process again. Thanks to everyone for all the support its much. Good luck to everyone on their journeys hope your dreams come true xxx

[Kat9lives in reply to Hidden]

Oh Button123 I'm so so sorry to hear this. Take the time you need. There is nothing I can say to make things any better but just wanted to say that you have always been a real supporter on here to all of us, so positive and so kind. I'm sending you huge hugs and lots of strength, like you have sent to us all at times. I'm sure other girls will agree, you are a lovely, kind person and you deserve your happy ending one day. Don't give up hope... but for now make sure you let yourself have a good cry and take care of each other Xxxx

[Hidden in reply to Kat9lives]

Thanks kat9lives that means a lot. Even though I am gutted I feel slightly better just to be off the roller coaster for a while, not the choice I would want but defo didn't realise just how emotionally draining it is. Me and my hubby are off tomorrow so going out for the day, also going to book us a much needed weekend away and try and live again whilst getting ready for round 2 x

[Daisy32 in reply to Hidden]

I am really sorry to hear your news. It is the most emotionally draining thing we've ever done, I completely understand how you feel. We're doing the same, definitely need some time to recover before round 2. Take care of yourselves x

[Milly_Moo in reply to Hidden]

I completely get this, if my second cycle for me doesn't work again (at stim stage) I'm having the summer to enjoy my fella and life for a bit. It is an emotional roller coaster. I literally felt like I had read my own post back when I did my first cycle... So similar.xx

[Georgina78 in reply to Hidden]

Huge hugs to you both 😔 just do what you need to do now and if that's just shut yourselves away together for a little while then so be it. Put yourselves first, lots of love xxx

[Aimaim77 in reply to Hidden]

So sorry to hear this but be kind to yourself and take some time to do some lovely things . Xx

[Mel77]

Poor thing Button,

Just wanna say all soothing words I know to bring you more comfort. There are hundreds of different situations. Some women show AF and fail, others succeed anyway. So, if this is Friday you're gonna test, let the things be just like that. Keep your way and forget about losing hope. This is a bad helper in the case.

We had our 1st app 8th Feb. Being still at the beginning as donor matching program is still uncompleted. (We booked 5 att de ivf program in biotexcom clinic). I cannot say for sure, for one time flies, for another - it has just stopped. Waiting is the most dreadful part of the treatment as you cannot influence the things' flow. You just do what you're told to do....and WAIT.

Probably another day of hope is really great, as you have first results to study and decide what to do further.

I'll be praying for you, as I suppose soon I'll get into the same boat..This is all about time and hope. Stay strong dear, you're not alone Xxx

[Tlove]

So sorry to hear this, button. As Kat says, you have been so positive throughout this difficult process. I hope you can remain somewhat positive, it's a great quality to have. Enjoy your well deserved break. Look after yourself and your partner - hope next time will be successful for you. x

[Twistedwillow]

So sorry Button. It really is an individual feeling as everyone is different but don't feel bad if you both end up going through a bit of a grieving process. After years of ttc and fertility treatments we seem to build a super strength to keep going. Don't feel bad about taking time out to rebuild that strength up again. Sounds like you and hubby have some good ideas together. Sending hugs, at what I know is a difficult time. X

[Hidden]

Hey button

Reading through the girls replies I reckon they have said everything that can be said. Brilliant bunch

I just want to say I'm here for you too, and send you a massive hug.

Take time with hubby, enjoy the pure pleasure of being together. Talk to each other. Be close. Do something special.

And when you are both ready, are what tomorrow brings.

Xxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Hidden]

It's never over until

It's over as hard as it is to stay positive u just really never know.

Hang on in babes xx

[me08]

So sorry Button, I just thought to send you hugs. I hope you find the strength and positivity after your break. Take care of each other x

[Hidden]

Well it's OTD and as I thought it's not our time. thanks for all the support of everyone it's ment so much. Just going to enjoy ourselves for abit now and not rush straight back into anything. Good luck everyone on their journeys xxx

[Hopeful1982 in reply to Hidden]

Sorry to hear this. Life is just so unfair at times. Take care of yourself x

[Blondyboo]

so sorry xxx

[anna0908]

Didn't want to post til your OTD as was hoping you would get that miracle despite the bleeding. Am thinking of you. This journey causes so much pain but I have to believe that I will get there some day. Hope you can feel the same and come back fighting. Best wishes and hugs xxx