Feeling sad 😥

[Green-elephants]

Pretty sure I'm having a chemical miscarriage.

Started with light spot bleeding a week ago. Yesterday more period like, started cramps today.

Called clinic but they said too early for scan and they don't check hcg levels. To ride it out till scan 7 week scan a week today.

[Fingerscrossed34]

I’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s so impossibly hard. Don’t lose hope yet. They would only scan me early because I had really extreme bleeding, it can be hard for them to see much so early on. You could look at a private scan? Clinics do those from 6 weeks, about £70. Whatever you need to do to keep yourself just about sane just now. Don’t give up yet. 🤞 x

[Green-elephants in reply to Fingerscrossed34]

Thank you ♡ I called again today and they are seeing me tomorrow morning xxx

[Fingerscrossed34 in reply to Green-elephants]

Oh that’s great news! I kind of wanted to say to hassle them into it but wasn’t sure if that was helpful advice! I’m really pleased they are seeing you. 🤞 Hope it’s all good news tomorrow and can put your mind at rest a little bit. x

[Green-elephants in reply to Fingerscrossed34]

Thank you ♡ can only hope xx

[Green-elephants in reply to Fingerscrossed34]

As I suspected, I've had a miscarriage ♡ xx

[Fingerscrossed34 in reply to Green-elephants]

Oh I’m so sorry. Sending you so much love. 💔 x

[andylins]

Hi honey. I've already answered you on another thread. I'm sorry to hear about your chemical. I know this painful experience when hopes get crushed every time you get bfn or mc. I've been through this nightmare myself. My multiple tries of IUI and OE IVF broght no luck. Dh and I doubted if we could got through more shots. We both felt like we had to hear more opinions on what was going on. So we turned abroad for more consultations with fertility experts. Finally understood doctors didn't feel ok about pushing us through more IVF cycles with own eggs. We were strongly adviced to have a closer look onto donor eggs if we wanted to expect higher chances.