Not sure if writing this for help or a general off load as shocked and tearful.
I legal guardian to a four year old who is incredibly wonderful but incredibly hard work. He has never had an official diagnosis only a suspected fasd as i have been told Dr and p eadiatrics can't diagnose even though he has classic signs and written evidence of his birth mother drinking 140 units a week.
He is in mainstream reception class and this morning his teacher told me he said I had hit him round the head yesterday and she was going to file a report but needed to speak to me first.
I actually laughed in shock but am getting very stressed and worried about it. I did say that he can tell tales as he accused me of pushing him into a nettle bush at the weekend when he tripped up. She questioned if early help had been in touch as the Dr requested it and i advised school of this and the teacher said she woyld obviously need to write a report and pass it on regarding my son's accusations and also suggested she put in a early help notification. She also asked if any problems at home early last week as my son has been playing up at school and bitten a child and kicked another. I advised that this time of year sets his behaviours off and he struggles to cope so we down play Christmas and i got a flippant all children get hyped.
I am at a loss and devastated plus worried what is going to happen.
I know that take telling is a part of fasd but assumed it would start when older and naively thought my child is so honest he wouldn't do this.
Any help as feel at a loss and put of my depth. I do have my own health problemsand waiting for ops so feel less able to cope for anyone out there thinking "your worried about THIS?"