Hi, dear All!
I'm writing this as I've read a confusing post on one of the forums dealing with infertility. Writing to people in the same boat became the part of my life. Even now when we've successfully accomplished our de ivf treatment in Ukrainian Biotexcom clinic and do parenting job, I'm totally for saying some soothing words for others. Though even not for a long it might bring them relief..
So, this is the problem a lady states. She's been TTC for almost 4 years, likely made their mind together with the doc as for the most appropriate route. Before this they were suggested IUI, ICSI, IVF - whatever, she says, just to loom their money. In haste they did some rounds of IUI - most failed, one ended in BFN, lately with early miscarriage.
Then another round with ICSI - no success as it turned out impossible to conceive with their own eggs. I don't know whether for emotional strength or being reality but she blames her docs being not understanding and supportive, though being higly qualified to everything women have to go through. They are just lucky bodies having got pregnant with one cough, the last one being prego 6 months, and not a single supportive word of wisdom or any cheering up..
This sound really hurtful, doesn't it?! Apparently I can say only the best words as for our Biotexcom staff ready to give a helping hand every minute you need it, day and night. So, I'm so so awfully sorry for the lady facing the different attitude.
So ladies what about your clinics, their staff, your docs? Did you like the way you were treated?
Strong hugs, lovelies Xx Seems people need us and we each other!