Hi, I'm new to this, just looking for some advice really. My 9 year old daughter has been daytime and bedtime wetting since we started toilet training her nearly 7 years ago, she attends regular hospital appointments and in feb of this year she had a small minor operation to stretch her bladder slightly. On top of that she is on regular medication, she takes a slow release oxybutynin, she has recently started on desmomelts about 4 weeks ago, at the same time as that the hospital started her on a tens machine which she uses 3 times per week. She also takes 5ml of trimethoprim every night to prevent urine infections as she used to take them regularly. She uses a woble watch to remind her to go to the toilet, especially when at school, although she still comes home most days wet or smelling of urine, she is getting to an age where she is to embarrassed to get changed incase anyone says anything to her. We keep a record of how much she is drinking throughout the day and she stops drinking an hour before taking the melts, her dad and I don't really know where to go from here, her friends keep asking her to sleepovers which I keep having to say no to and then am left feeling really guilty. We just feel that nothing we try works for her.