I had my 2nd lap 4 weeks ago and had quite a lot done. Sex has always been painful for me and even more so in recent months. I'm in a long term relationship (7 years) and my boyfriend has been with me every step of the way in dealing with endo. He's been so patient with me an hasn't pressured me into having sex since the lap but I can tell he's getting restless and soon enough I'm going to have to pluck up the courage ... I'm so terrified it's going to hurt I just want to avoid it at all costs but I can't put it off for much longer...what to do?