Forgive, or not to forgive ...?

[1969]

Hiya guys, I don't know about you but I have just came home from one hellish day. If someone you love, trust and understand lied, caused a gate deal of grief between you and your almost second parents and also landed you in a grate deal of trouble with people and is also messing with you mentally ... Should/would you forgive them? I am very sympothetic and I feel like I'm being to harsh but this isent the first time and look where that second chance got me! Right back to square one .. Woo hoo here we go AGAIN :/

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Can't help on this one, Megan.

Wee bit close to home for me to be rational about it.

Just make sure in your own mind that you aren't blowing something out of proportion...

Stuart

[1969]

Honestly, some people just aren't worth the time these days every time something good happens, someone always seems to go and ruin it ... Ill leave it for just now because "I have a lot more on my mind" at the moment. I just wish when you give someone your complete trust for the second time that they actually relise how LUCKY they are to have your complete trust hrrmmmm I really hate people sometimes!

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Hi 1969 my simple answer to that is no. You have been more than fair and given them a second chance. It sounds like a toxic relationship and no one needs those in their life. If it is someone you still have to see and deal with then withhold your trust and as far as possible keep them out of your life. They are just ............ you about.

I sometimes hate people as well because as you rightly said they do ruin things.

Bev x

[1969]

Yeah this relationship has gone sour don't think ill ever trust anyone like I trusted him to be honest oh well ill try and hold on to the good times and except that this is it ... All the pain and stress has been prolonged to long for everyone it's time to give it up I thinks :/ thanks bev x

[1969]

Lost all control today, ended up going mental at this person in front of everyone but I had to say it and I had to say it then haha