Time had passed, it was a sunny day, So I said to my daughters dad, shall I go buy the grandkids some ice cream? He urged me to go in to her house, saying that hes been trying to get me to visit the grand kids but I said no,, four times,,,,(since I was acused of bad mouthing my daughter) I just said she needs to get help for herself.
I wasnt keen, because I know what its like. I went in with the paper because Iknow the acward silences, 7 ice creams in hand. I would let the kids come to me. (as I was told my daughter was bad mouthing me to all the kids) So they might be a bit,,, unsure of speaking to me.
The little girl was telling me of her role, dancing, and showing me the moves. The little boy, was telling me about he new game consoles,, or what ever they are called
Unknown to me fireworks were going on in the garden, then the husband come home, he looked like thunder.
ex husband said lets go.
My daughter left a message, "dont come over unless you have rang first"
I left it to the next day,, before I replied,,,, just said,,,,NO.
All she does is makes these excusses to control everyone with her moods and sulks and trantrums, hense her husband coming home.
Got home, and a barrage of abusive phone messges, and the elder kids involving themselves I just said its between your mum and me.
Then thinking it was a joke before,,, my grand daughter said i remember the hammer you threw at me,,, I thought to myself,, having brother who taught me to throw, and aim, and do boys stuff,,, if I had thrown a hammer at her I would have killed her... oh heres all the drama coming.
Then my other grand daughter texts,, saying why did you tell my mother about, blar blar blar,,, because I didnt say it,,, you did,,, and that I was bad mouthing her mother,,, I had said,, she should get help for herself,, and that it was the grand daughter who was mixing trouble.
what to do, my daughter tells all her friends on face book, and the last time, I came to help at the garage, as my son in law, was falling behind on the paperwork, and it would help me to get out a bit, she was texting everyone and having a laugh behind my back with all the people there, saying my god shes still there,, whats she doing there,, and they all were laughing,,,it just hurt me soooo deeply, I couldnt say anything,,,I got a text from her by accident, and thats how I found this out...
The other time she was shouting at me in the street, swearing and accusing me of something she hadnt got her facts about,, while my other grand kids were in the car,,,
how much more do I have to shut my mouth about,,,!!!! Im so hurt,,,