I was diagnosed with colon cancer 1st week of March this year. I have always had hemorrhoids so blood in my stool was never a concern. However, in Dec last year I noticed I was going to the loo too many times, alot of blood and narrow stools. I still didnt think much of it.
In Jan I got an anal abscess. It was the most painful experience of my life. It was drained and I healed quite quickly. A fistula developed in Feb. A fistulotomy was performed. I was dicharged and went home to heal. About 2 weeks later, a doctor from the hospital called telling me to urgently go see him. I was away with my family on holiday. I told him the earliest I could see him was 4 days later. I didnt think much of it. I thought he was calling to check on my progress after surgery .
Well, 4 days later I was back to see him. He then told me that as part of protocol, any tissue they remove is taken to the lab for biopsy and unfortuntely cancer cells were spotted in my sample. I was shocked! He told me they tested 3 different times and the outcome was the same. They were equally surprised as I am only 39 yrs and quite healthy and a gym freak.
I was immediaty booked for an MRI. Results showed a mass in the colon. A chest CT scan showed some small lung nodules. I did a colonoscopy plus biopsy which showed where the cancer was located. To rule out lung metastasis, a CT guided biopsy was done on the largest lung nodule. The result was -ve for malignancy.
I begun treatment in April. 25 sessions of chemo (xeloda 3300mg a day) plus radiotherapy. It went quite well until the 18 session when major fatigue kicked in. Also, my skin around the anus peeled off causing alot of pain. My fistula also started acting up by discharging alot of weird colored mucus. I was told it was the result of radiotherapy.
Anyway I completed treatment and am now awaiting surgery to remove the tumor. I did my blood work plus CT and MRI scans this week. Am to see my oncologist next week. Am very apprehensive as I dont know what to expect. Am particularly worried about the lung nodules. I just hope they were right when they said they were not malignant. I guess the chest CT will show this
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Hi don't worry about it when you meet your consultant I found my team was very nice you said that your 39yrs so am I and I'm in my last year free for my 2nd lot I was 34&35 when I got my cancer diagnosis and I found my team really helped me understand and get driven to beat this thay even helped me out with having to do the blood tests ( I'm a big chicken when it comes to needles so my chemotherapy was big pills like I said I am a chicken) .
If you ever want to talk to someone who is same age and has gone through Colon Cancer you can feel free to give me a message.
I have just recovered from bowel cancer so I know what your going through,it is one of the easiest cancers to cure,don’t let it get you down I’m sure everything thing will work out well for you, I am cancer free now and hopefully it will be the same for you you have a long road ahead but they have fantastic treatments now and I will pray for your complete recovery, jerry
Thank you for sharing and I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis and all that you've been through. I hope you will find support here in this group.
Did you have biomarker testing done on your tumor? If so, do you know if there are any genetic mutations that were identified? Personalized medicine is really advancing, particularly in colorectal cancer, and depending on any mutations in your tumor, specific treatments may be available. We have a website, knowyourbiomarker.org that has more information about this topic.
Please keep in touch on your treatment - we're here for you.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. This one goes out to the rest of the thread. I’ve been experiencing blood in stool on and off and stomach pai for around 2 and half weeks. Did any of you have stomach pain leading up to your diagnosis. Cramping all over my stomach but mainly on right side and on/under my rib cage. My doctor has done two blood tests which both show that I’m not anemic. The second blood test also confirmed there was no inflammation. Should this give me confidence that it’s not colon cancer? Worth pointing out that I had a colonoscopy 5 years that was normal.
Many thanks for any help you guys can provide. This is such an amazing forum. Full of so many brave people willing to share their experiences to help others - that’s the definition of selfless ... much respect, love and power to you all. Keep strong and upbeat.
Just an update. The lung nodules have been ruled out as cancerous and that is the good news. The bad is that a biopsy was done on the fistula track and its positive for cancer.
Frankly am devastated as I had hoped all along that I wont need a permanent stoma. The surgeon says its the only option. I am awaiting a second and third opinion before I proceed with this life changing decision
Hi Nicole. I sought 4 different opinions and they all said the same thing. I thus has had the operation on 29th July. I now have a permanent stoma. Its not been easy adjusting to a new way of life. Frankly I just dont like my life right now.
The operation was over 7 hours. I was on a catheter for almost 3 weeks as I could not pass urine no matter how much I tried. Thankfully am now able to do so. My erections completely disappeared. Surgeon says its likely due to nerve injury and is hopeful I will recover. I was however not satisfied with that feedback so am seeing a urologist at a different hospital.
I am still in pain over 6 weeks later. The pain is from the anal wound as its not completely healed. Sitting down is a problem and so is driving.
I just feel that this cancer has taken too much from me and its just not fair. Am only 39. But since I have 3 kids, I guess I have no choice but to fight for their sake
Dear Martin50, Thanks for replying and I'm so sorry for all that you are going through. I can't speak from personal experience but have seen many many people come to peace with having a permanent stoma. But as I understand it, it takes time. It's hard when it feels like your body is working against you and I do hope that you are able to find relief and find moments of joy, if not now, at some point in the future.
Have you had any luck with any types of pillows for sitting/driving? Are there any topical creams that are allowed (I'm guessing not if it is an open wound healing but maybe worth asking if something with lidocaine to numb the pain is allowed?)
That's great that you are able to urinate now and have had the catheter removed. I know it can be hard to celebrate wins when you have so many challenges you are facing in front of you.
Absolutely seek out another urologist. I'm sure it is really frustrating.
I'm not sure where in the world you are located, but there are a number of groups where people who have ostomy's connect. I know many people who have benefited from being able to share tips and frustration.
Here's an international group - but if you let me know what country you are in, I can look for some resources for you. ostomyinternational.org/
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