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I don't know whats more pathetic, people who gossip about lies, or people who listen to gossip about lies.

I'm easily annoyed by people who gossip about others when they should fix something about themselves.

It's funny how the people who know the least about you, always have the most to say.

Ignore those people who are talking about you behind your back because they are right where they belong. BEHIND YOU.

Before uttering something about another person, ask yourself 3 questions; is it true? Is it fair? Is it necessary? We are all different in our own way but at the end of the day, we all have feelings!

I know gossip, slander, and false accusations can be hurtful and are completely unnecessary; however, the most important fact to remember is that it really doesn’t matter what other people think you are, it’s who you really are that truly matters

''Those who matter don’t mind, and those who mind, don’t matter.''

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Those who gossip should get a life of their own then they would have no need to interfere in other people's!

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Well said secrets. Best to ignore those who have nothing nice to say. There are always those who gossip without knowing the facts. Those sort of people really don’t matter but it can be very hurtful. I do hope you’re ok and don’t let anyone bother you. Take care xxxx

As you said in your post about people fixing themselves, it reminded me of another saying…..people should take their own inventory before they take another’s.

Well said and I've heard that saying before mam showed me it, and we are who we are and in your case a lovely genuine caring man who's been through hell n back and here you are still plodding on,and sending enlightening posts, hope no one's said out bad about you if so as that saying goes there not worth it not a friend hugs from.us 🤗🐯xxxx

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No show without Prince Pixie!

Been to my interview this morning for a catering assistant job at the old chapel at the old infirmary and she said she will let everyone know on Friday which is fair enough.

Decided to stop for a cup of tea at a cafe I hadn't tried before in a different area near where I live and it's nice to learn how life is different just a few streets away as I don't want to be like my father who would turn away potential experiences and friends due to his own insecurities and prejudices and paradoxically the person he damaged the most being like that was himself!

Paradox is that those who advertise that they are superior to others are the most insecure!

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CallendersgalAdministrator

Yes secrets22, we could all do with following the advice of the 3 gates we should all pass through before we utter anything. Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind?

Exactly Sue.x

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