I'm the sole caregiver for my mate, who is seriously ill, both mentally and physically. It's literally crushing me, and I haven't the faintest idea what to do.
If I can't share my feelings on this forum (they're "not in the tenor and spirit of this forum"), then I see no point in continuing to participate. I re-read the "community guidelines", and I have no earthly idea what I've done wrong, but I really haven't the surplus energy necessary to pursue the matter. If posts are limited to shallow "Pollyanna" superficialities, I obviously need to seek support elsewhere.
I need help, not a librarian telling me to keep my voice down.
Best of luck to all of you.