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Hi All, firstly thank you all so much for the amazing support you have given me over the past three very traumatic weeks. Secondly ... All is good! To say we are all ecstatic is an understatement. The lumps that I found and the GP and Consultant felt are 'knots' as they were described, in tissue in my armpit, side and elbow joint. Nothing at all to be concerned about. I have lost wwight and due to rhis very necessary weight loss, I can notice them more. It is great to know I have a GP and Consultant who are totally on the ball. All of you were amazing. The thoughts of having to go through treatment again was awful. Now, "Onwards and Upwards" as they say. Projects to do and the first is to ditch all that worry. Have a good weekend everyone. Lots of love always, Lainey66 xxxx

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What great news. I was thinking about you just before you posted. So very happy for you. If you have your health you have everything. Much love xxx

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So happy for you! Like you say, onwards and upwards from here. X

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That's great news Lainey πŸ’–πŸ’—πŸ’ž

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Lainey, Lainey, Lainey! πŸ’πŸ₯‚πŸΎ

That is just the Very, Very, Very Best News in the Whole World!

Fantastic! πŸ’•πŸŒΈπŸ₯‚

I’m just so pleased for you xxx

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It has been such a stressful few weeks. I have had a headache for the past two days, brought on by absolute relief I think. Thank you so much for your kind messages and concern, it has meant so much πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’ xxxxxx

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I am very happy for you, Lainey66. I didnt know that you were worry by your own health during this weeks and you took time to support me. You are wonderful. The best for you!!! xxx

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Oh Lainey how utterly fantastic!! Soooo good to hear some good no THE BEST news I am so glad for you and your family. SUper to know there CAN be good news.

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Fantastic news! Have been thinking about you for the last couple of weeks and so pleased to hear you're OK. Have a marvellous weekend. Xx

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Really pleased for you,hope you have a great weekend and do something nice to celebrate xxxx

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I have been reading your posts and although I have never written on here before I felt I had to this time. I'm so pleased all OK with you I have been hoping the results would be good and like everyone else so relieved for you and your family. Hugs and best wishes jo xxx

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Hi lainey

I have been checking in on here to see if you had updated and I'm absolutely thrilled to read this news just now!! So pleased for you and your family, now have a happy mothers day this weekend, I hope you get pampered!😘

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So happy to hear this great news! was thinking about you.

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What a relief, so pleased for you x

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Great news xx

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So glad it was such good news, and well done for losing the weight, I can’t imagine how relieved you must be feeling, all the while going through this yourself and supporting others, you are an amazing lady, and good luck, you deserve it.❀️Xx

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oh wow that's fantastic news. Time to destress and enjoy things again xxx

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Thank you all so very much for your kindness, support and good wishes. I wish you all a beautiful weekend. To all the mothers have a wonderful mother’s day, enjoy being spoiled xxxx love, hugs, positivity to you all xxxx

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Fantastic. The best news ever. Its so nice to get some really good news. Sometimes I feel surrounded by bad news about friends and family and this is so brilliant. You deserve this, you have been so good to everyone. XX Caroline

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Oh I am so happy for you Lainey it's great news. I can only imagine how worried you have been as I would have too. I so pleased that you can continue on with your life without the worry from now on. I know all of us would be the same and it is only natural. I'm getting some help with my anxiety at the moment and moving forward as feel like I am struggling but hopefully soon I won't let my worry rule my life.

Hope you can achieve more of whatever you want to do and best wishes xx

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Hi there Birthday2018, Thank you so much for your good wishes. Anxiety can be very debilitating. I have discovered the wonderful, mentally healing benefits of meditation. I found cutting ties to my negative thoughts where I focussed on the 'what ifs..?' Of the cancer returning benefitted me so much. My attitude now is... "Well if it comes back, I will beat it again". I was diagnosed with TNBC so it could be seen as a Sword of Damacles hanging over my head, however I choose to see it as the drive to do as much as I can in this life, because none of us knows what is around the corner. I try to find at least two positive things in the worst of situations, but on every 'normal' day I look at the many positives that come my way. I have taken up hobbies and interests that I have not had the time to do in the past. I go to see places I have always wanted to see. I find keeping busy and as positive as I can leaves me with very little time to focus on cancer. When that does occur or I am low, I fall back on my meditation. It really has helped me. I hope you find the tool that assists you in over coming your anxiety. Sending love, best wishes and positivity. Lainey66 πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’

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Such Great advice here Lainey. ❀️

Today is in fact the only day we ever have.

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Hi Lainey thanks so much for that. I have been told meditation may help me. I agree totally with you it is the what ifs? Scared it will come back and constantly worrying about any twinge or pain??? Not good I know.

I think you are right, it is best to try and find positives in everyday. I do better when I have a busy day, meeting friends or going somewhere, its more the times when I am home alone where one thought leads to another and I am getting very stressed. I need to find hobbies as you said before and occupy my every moment then no room for anything negative. I hope I do find some help with therapy and will definitely look at meditation and make the time for it as I have to now, I need to give myself some time for nice things xx

You are definitely someone who makes me feel like pushing myself more and finding new things/ventures/hobbies etc as you have to be kind to yourself after all what you go through x

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Hi birthday

Would you like to have a chat sometime?

I’m doing my journey all alone too and love to have conversations. Pm me if you fancy it. I’ve found some Lovely teachings too that have helped me. Fxx

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I'd love to have a chat sometime. Not sure how we would, phone or on email? Didn't understand what Pm was? Sorry not always good with abbreviations or anything technical speak/facebook speak :-( I was thinking yesterday that I'm sure if we met we would be friends. I'd be interested in hearing about any nice teachings you think could help me. Just bobbing out now but will check later. Take care xx

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Brilliant Lainey. I am so pleased for you. You were so supportive of me whilst I was going through the worst of treatment I really hoped it would be good news for you and it is! Wonderful. Keep up the good work!

Lots of Love, Sue xxxx

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What great news! Worry be gone!

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Oh Lainey how wonderful to hear you are relieved to hear you don’t gave to worry about those lumps ! I’m happy for you

Denise x

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Great news xx

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