How can i know if my abortion is complete?

[Drodsty76]

Hi i need help..

I had a medical abortion by the doctor on the 26th of January 2018,i went back home thats when the cramps started and i was bleeding..i slept,after an hour or so i went to the toilet when i took off my pentie something with a lot of blood came out .i went back to sleep after 30 minutes i went back to the toilet something jelly (round like a ball )came out.after sometime i went to the toilet i had an extrene diarrhoea that i could even feel my tummy lowering.i was bleeding till Thursday the 1st of February 2018

Now am afraid if am still pregnant because i have frequent urination and my boobs have some milky liquid that have been coming out

Plz help as soon as you see this message

[Hidden]

No one will be able to give you a definite answer on the success of your abortion my Lovely. Bleeding is common after an abortion but if you are worried get yourself to a doctor who can check you over and make sure you’re ok. Are you in the UK? You can always ring 111 and be assessed over the phone too. Heres some further information that may help: webmd.com/women/tc/abortion...

Wishing you a speedy recovery x

[Drodsty76 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much..no i'm in SA

[Steph1989]

Hi,

As said above nobody can give you a definite answer if your abortion was 100% successful however pregnancy hormones can stay in the body for a while after the abortion so it is completely normal to have sore boobs, frequent urination etc. After my abortion I bled for 2 weeks.

My advice would be wait for 3 weeks retest and of still positive contact the doctor who did the abortion.

Take care and please try to not worry.

[Drodsty76 in reply to Steph1989]

Thank you that was really helpful

[Hidden]

I’m 7 weeks pregnant and my partner don’t want the baby so I’ve had to book dr appointment to be referred for surgical that’s the only way I want to do it as it’s upsetting enough . What do you feel like afterwards I’m dreading it as I don’t want to go through with it but my partner not happy about baby 😔 what will I expect to feel afterwards pain etc

[Edencalford in reply to Hidden]

I had an abortion a year and a half ago. It wasn’t the chase that me and my partner didn’t want a baby, it was more the fact that me and my partner just wasn’t ready. Having an abortion isn’t easy but if you have your boyfriend holding your hand all the way through it, from personal experience, it becomes slightly easier. I would recommend sitting down with your partner and telling him how you feel about the hole thing because it has to be a joint decision, otherwise if you do regret it afterwords, you’ll never forgive him for making you do it.

Hope everything works out.

Xxx

[Lovelock in reply to Edencalford]

Me and my partner went throgh same thing time just wasnt right we were going through a really rough patch and didnt know if we would be togther i had one under genral anaesthetic at i was bearly 12 weeks i had mine in novemver 2017 we both know if we were in a good place we would ov kept it.

[Lovelock in reply to Hidden]

Went through same thing sit down togther and discuss everything i had a surgical termination as i was nearly 12 weeks it wasnt right me and my were going through a really rough patch and didnt know if we would be togther i had mine done innovemver 2017

After i did bleed quite abit but slowed later in the day they give you pain killers in your drip it is a little bit easier in you if your partner is there with you begining to end you will cramp like period cramps.