I'm 15 and possibly pregnant..

[ineedhelp12345]

I need advice. I am 15, i have had unprotected sex twice, twice in two days.. on the third day i took the morning after pill. This was around August 15th. its september and my period still has not started. He did not ejaculate inside me and i took the morning after pill anyway so i don't understand how i would be pregnant. I took 3 pregnancy tests and 2 were negative and 1 did not work because i did it wrong. I don't remember when my last period was, i think it was around the end of july or beginning of august but i am not sure. I can not tell my mum as she is very strict. I know there is a sex clinic near me and i am going to go there saturday but what if i am pregnant? I'd obviously get an abortion but i don't want my mum finding out.. what can i do? i have had no signs on pregnancy, i don't think, it's just my period is extremely late by like a month. someone please help asap i keep having panic attacks and i am unable to focus on school and stuff while thinking about all this.. thank you x

[Bpas_1968 Partner]

Hi there

Is there anyway that you can go the another young persons walk in clinic before Saturday? I think if you are worried it would be good to meet with one of their nurses so that they can take a test with you. This website will help find your closest service and it might be that there is one open before or after school that you could go to?

brook.org.uk/find-a-service

If not is there a school nurse you could talk to confidentially?

Best wishes

Katherine

[ineedhelp12345 in reply to Bpas_1968]

The website said the nearest is 50 miles away. I know there is a place one mile from me that does stuff like STI tests and gives you free contraception and stuff like that, I am going to definitely go there on saturday and see what they can do but if i can get there before saturday i will try. I am worried if i talk to the school nurse they would tell my parents or other teachers. Thank you for the help.

[Bpas_1968 Partner in reply to ineedhelp12345]

Okay well at least you know that you can go to a clinic nearer to you on Saturday. Not too long to wait now. You should be able to speak to the school nurse confidentially but if you are concerned maybe it is best to wait until Saturday.

[hspread]

the two negatives is a good sign as with your period being this late it would show the HCG ( pregnancy hormone ) by now so your probably not pregnant, other things can cause late periods probably because you are worrying about it, if you are pregnant it would be due to the pre cum, sperm still comes out before full ejaculation, so although pull out method is mostly reliable it does on occasion fail, if you don't want to have a baby and im sure you don't at just 15 consider contraception so you don't need to go through this again

[ineedhelp12345]

i took the pregnancy tests like two weeks ago so i'm not sure if things have like changed or developed or whatever

[H305]

I would definitely take another test, if you are pregnant it should be positive by now, if not then it could be the stress making you late on x

[SC94]

Try getting a clear blue digital test. Wee into a plastic pot or a cup then dip it into it. You can't really go wrong then and should give you a pregnant or not pregnant so you'll know for sure but I'd still go speak to someone so you can get advice on the best contraception for you. I got pregnant at 17 and it is hard being a mum especially so young and I couldn't imagine doing it any younger than I did if you don't want to end up pregnant which in the end you will if you don't use protection then you need to get condoms or something. Also if you use clinics for young people they don't tell your parents I got a implant in my arm at 15 and they didn't tell anyone. The nurses at school are confidential but DO NOT TELL A TEACHER if you don't want your mum to find out cos they have a legal obligation to tell your parents and social services. It's a big deal having sex and it comes with alot of responsibility like making sure you use protection for prevention of stds too just be careful!

[jenna01]

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