My poor mum in the care home. We think she is dying yet they keep dragging her out to her meals and shoving her in wheelchairs and shes not eating. They are giving her build up drinks but thats all she will take. She wont open her eyes and is too weak to talk yet they are taking her into meals and shes too weak to eat. I wish they would stop dragging her around its awful. Its like shes half dead and they are pulling her corpse around. We have asked them to let her stay in her room for a week or so but they insist on getting her up and shes too weak to resist them its awful and i cant stand it. Its killing me. We dont think she will get any better at least let her die in dignity and peace. I feel so guilty becuase I cant stop them and they wont listen to us. The doctor been around and he said basilly the same thing. What do we do. my sister and i are going round later and we are going to have a talk with them. One day we willfind her dead i her chair and shes given up and i dont know what to do its awful. she looks terrible yet they are still dragging her around and shoving her into chairs. I cant bear it.
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