Help at last but too late

Just to give an update on my poor husband. He is now in such alot of trouble. After being taken to A & E last Sunday to find he a severe pneumonia and was admitted,I was so relieved, help at last!!!!! After scans and xray's I have been told there is a mass in one kidney which could have spread to the lung and they suspect it to be a tumour. His left lung has collapsed now too. I can't believe it was only last week that they thought it COPD. I just knew that wasn't right. It feels like months have past this week its all becoming a blur. My poor husband doesn't eat ot drink and sleeps most of the time. The only good thing is he isnt in any pain. Please pray for him.

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  • my thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband xxxxx

  • Thank you Krazy Lady xx

  • Thinking and praying for you both xxxx

  • Thank you so much xx

  • So sorry Rosemary, thoughts and prayers for you both. xoxox

  • Just come home, feel so sad. xx

  • Thinking off you both my thoughts are with you.


  • Thank you Katexx

  • my thoughts & prayers are with you both rosemay.God bless you,s xx

  • Thank you so much xx

  • We will pray for you and your husband

  • I have tears streaming down my face with all the care you have shown me.

  • Thought's and prayers xxx

  • Thank you I hope someone somewhere is listening xx

  • Thank you all for caringxx

  • Prayers for you both, thinking of you. God bless.

  • thank you Polly xxx

  • We may know tomorrow what the next plan of action is, I'm dreading it. xxx

  • On my mind and in my prayers. Take care. Marilyn x

  • Thank you so much xxxx

  • so sorry to hear of this distress to you and hubby

    thinking of you and sending love x

  • We are hanging in there xxx

  • I can only echo the above sentiments Rosemay, and hope that all is not lost xx

  • I will try to keepyou all informed. xxxx

  • so sorry my eyes are full as I write this, sometimes life throws poo at you and it hurts, take care of yourself and take solace in knowing we are all thinking of you and your husband and wishing you both well. x

  • In s strange way its helped toknow people care xx

  • Lots of love and prayers go out to you all xxx

  • Thinking of you V al x

  • Thank you so much xx

  • Thank you so much xxx

  • Nobody can tell you how to do this, only you. Just wishing you some kind of peace of mind and strength to get through this. He is in the right place to move forward. Big hugs...

  • Thank you Stephns xxx

  • So very sorry to hear your news. My thoughts and wishes are with you and your husband.

    Marie x

  • I am so sorry to hear your news, and like every one else my thoughts are with you both. Have you got any family or friends that can support you face to face through this?

  • My best wishes to you...Dorothy.

  • So sorry. will keep you both in my prayers. God bless you both.

  • I am so sorry you are facing this. My thoughts and prayers join the others. x

  • My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family I pray for strength to see you through each day. B

  • You have been shown so much love and support from people you have never met before.................. what a wonderful place this is and what a wonderful world we live in when strangers can come together to pray.

    I wish both you and your husband well and hope you take some comfort from knowing he is in the right place to get on the road to recovery xxx

  • Hi,

    I'm sorry to hear about your husband & all the problems you seem to be having at the moment.

    Please be assured we are all thinking of you both & wishing you all well.

    Take care

    Dave xxx

  • Thoughts and prayers to you both xx

  • My thoughts and prayers are with you both, wishing your dear husband a very special get well prayer.

    David 1968

  • absolutely heartfelt wishes to you for being so loving & loyal with prayers for your mans recovery and hope he can gain the strength from all our prayers and thoughts for him & you.

    all the very best. xxx


  • So sorry Rosemay I am sending my thoughts and prayers too.

    Between us we will make him better!

    Bev xx

  • My thoughts are with you both , and joining all the others of this wonderfull forum in their prayers for you. xx

  • Thank you all so very much for all your messages of hope. I have a lovely daughter who comes everyday and evening with me to see him. Today the Dr's all have a meeting to decide what the next step will be, so hopefully I will be able to have some hope and I will keep you informed God bless you all xxxxx

  • God bless you Rosemary, all your family and all the doctors helping your husband at this time. I am so pleased your daughter is with you each day and evening.

    Thinking of you today, always in our thoughts.

    Hugs xoxox

  • Wishing you and your family every best wish. My prayers are with you all. TAD xx

  • I pray the Lord to guide you and your family in your time of need

    From around the globe a million prayers are with you all indeed.

    Thinking of you

    Karen XXX

  • My prayers/thoughts are with you both. God Bless.


  • Hello Rosemary hope things are a little better. Prayers are very powerful and your husband is blest with all the prayers offered here and your love for him.

    Marie xx

  • So sad to hear such awful news. I do wish you might have heard something more hopeful today. With love and prayers.

    Emma x

  • You are in my thoughts and prayers and so is your poor dear husband. xxxx

  • So sorry to hear your sad news,thinking of you and your husband and daughter,praying for you all,stay strong,love Cazz x

  • rosemary try to stay strong ihave been in your position its like a bad dream if i could give you a big hug i would.

    thinking of you god bless.

    julia x

  • Such trajic news.\\\\\\\my thoughts and prayers are with you.Sending an e mail hug to you.Keep going.We are all praying for a positive outcome for you.luv and a hug

  • Aww lovey,

    Sending you prayers... Try to keep strong!!

    We know how hard it is to do, far easier to say..

    Lots of love xxxx

  • sending you hug Rosemay sending my love and prayers xxxxxx

  • Sending you prayers, and my love. Sue xxx

  • Keep us posted how things are going.

  • so sorry reading your post ,will pray for you both,and the doctors looking after your husband.xx

  • Thank you all so much for all your prayers and thoughts. My husband died yesterday. It was so quick and I just cannot believe it. I feel numb. I just don't know what to say really. My family are here and I am so lucky but I just want to sit on my own and try to sort this all out in my head. So much needs to be done, where do you start. I just wanted you all to know as you have shown me there are good people around. He had a peaceful end he didn't wake up and that helps me so much. What a nightmare, at least he's out of it now mine goes on.

  • i am so sorry to read about your husband rosemary my thought and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time x

  • Sorry Rosemary x

  • im thinking of you both at this time and send love & prayers to you all.

    stay strong....


  • I was very sorry to hear of your poor husband and you and what has been happening. My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this moment in time and may the good Lord bless you with giving your husband the strength to pull through and make a good recovery. As roger2502 said, Stay strong. xx

  • my heart goes out to you at this sad time Rosemary, may God give you strength to carry on, will pray for you xxx

  • I can only echo everyone's thoughts, I'm deeply saddened to hear of your loss Rosemary.

    My heart goes out to you & your family at this extremely sad & difficult time.

    Take care

    Dave xxx

  • God Bless Rosemary. praying for you and yours. J xx

  • Rosemary, our thoughts are with you, please take care and look after yourself too. If you need to talk (or rant, or cry ... all is fine) please call us here at the helpline for emotional support in confidence 03000 030 555, we are hear to help in any small way we can.

    Thinking of you and yours.

    Take care.


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