What with my health then losing my husband I ended up putting my cat to sleep yesterday appantly liver problems what on earth have I done to have such a shitty time right now I really have had enough my kittie was slim no reason to have liver problems just stopped eating I hate this friggin world right now I wish it would leave me alone 😭
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So sorry to hear that Itsmeagain1, how awful for you. Sending lots of love and gentle hugs your way. I do feel for you. Xxxx
So very sorry to hear that, I know things don't seem like it at the moment but things will gradually get better. We are all here for you anytime you need us. You try and have a good day and take care 😊 Bernadette and Jack 🐕 xxxx
Hold on there. It will get better xxxxx
Doesn't seem so right now I don't need anymore upset I know I did the right thing she was in pain but horrible all the same thankyou for your reply
I cried nearly nonstop for 3 days when we put our cat down. But then it calmed down. It does get better xxx
Bless u yes I haven't stopped yet their family after all I let my other 3 cats see her I have mum and her down ther daughter and son they staying close to me 2 on back of chair and one on my lap that's comforting
Oh I am so sorry about your husband. And now your lovely cat as well. My last cat was the first one I had to take to be put down and I cried so much at the vets they gave me a towel! For the next 5 days whenever I looked in the mirror all I saw was a cat murderer. Then the lovely messages I got from people saying he had a great life, was loved, and I had done the right thing etc. started taking hold and I felt a bit better. This will happen to you as well. I also believe in Rainbow Bridge.
Yes I had no choice even the vet said I could have this that and spend loads of money but she didn't think the outcome would be good she just stopped eating 2 days still drinking going to the toliet but bloated that quick constipation came to mind not liver she's at peace now
Yes she is. My cat was 17 and just stopped eating and drinking and his little stomach was swollen. He kept crying and when I took him to the vets they found a lump and said it was almost certainly cancer. They said they could check etc but it wasn't fair to him in such distress so I had no choice. I know I did the right thing for him but it sucked.
Oh life is so awful at present and you have had more than your fair share of it . So sorry for you.
Thankyou I hope that's it I want good news from now on poor little mite she was only 9 yrs old
I'm sorry to hear about your cat.
Liver problems don't discriminate though if you are slim or not.
It's always the way isn't it how these horrible things come in the same blow and that with your kitty must have felt like another smack in the face.
I sending you a big hug.
Sometimes life is just shitty.
I had have my 15 year old at put down.during the lockdown. She was such a babe and so spoilt.the vet was wonderful,he took her in ,gave her the injection,then wrapped her in her towel,%paw behind ear as ever - he then then gave her in to my arms to pass over.
You’re having such an unbelievably bad time.please make sure you eat a little it will help your medication work better. XXX
I’m so sorry to hear about your cat, it may not seem it now but you have absolutely done the right thing.
I do sympathise, and do have an idea of what you are feeling. The day my father died one of my cats got run over and killed and the next day another one had to be put to sleep, three weeks earlier I’d separated from my husband.
I thought my world had come to an end and I think I cried for a month.
It does get better day by day, try and find someone you can talk too, it does help
Love and hugs
So sorry you have lost your cat especially after everything you have been through already. I had to have my dog Poppy put to sleep in January so I know how you feel but I didn't have to deal with the other things so my heart goes out to you and I hope you have better times ahead xxxx
They're both looking down from heaven ,him with his little kitty on his knee sending love at this sad time xx
Life is so very unfair at times. After all your recent troubles and loss I hope that you soon turn a corner to better things xx
It's been a bad time for you recently and losing kittie unexpectedly must have come as a big blow. So sorry, it will get better. 😘x
Another blow for you, I am so sorry x Just remember that you have done the very best and selfless thing you possibly could for your feline friend. Remember the lovely times and smile xx
Always comes in threes . Hopefully things will start to get better for you . Take care 😥
I’m sorry to know things are so horrible for you just now. Sending you lots of good wishes and hoping for better days ahead 🌈
I am so sorry that you atr having such a bad time. It must feel like everyone is against you. They aren't, honestly! Stay safe this winter and I hope that the new year brings a better time for you. Thinking of you John
Sending you hugs (((💓))) and love, you have had to put up with so much at the moment, thinking of you x x x💐💐💐
Sometimes you wonder what on earth you've done to deserve so much crap, don't you? Well, I know I do - it always comes in a bundle - never one thing at a time.
I feel for you at such a time of loss and despair and hope that things soon settle down so you can have a more peaceful time and be able to gradually come to terms with everything that's been going on.
At a time when I was really, really low, a friend gave me a lovely blank note book and I decided to use it to write down all the 'silver linings' I could find each day eg ' I'm ill and can't go out, but that means I'm at home and saw goldfinches perch on the feeder for the first time ever.'
I recorded lots of small things like that and gradually my mood started to lift. It really was the best thing I found for keeping me sane! Then, when I could get out again, I started to get a postcard from wherever I could get one and stick that in, or just stick in a leaflet of interest. Now, I just keep a normal daily diary but sometimes look back on that journal and am amazed at the positive things I managed to find at a really bad time.
I don't know if it would work for you, but it really helped me to get out of a depression . Perhaps it might help you to do something similar.
Meanwhile, be kind to yourself. Remember that you really did the kindest thing for your cat and although you will miss her, you know she won't be in pain and suffering anymore.
Life can surely only get better for you now!
Sending you virtual hugs. xx Moy
Aww that's such a good thing to do I'll try thinking of something positive and maybe doing a diary right now I'm just plain miserable I will start picking myself up after the funeral just can't do it yet it just seems loss after loss
Yes, your husband's funeral must happen before you can start moving forward and grief affects us all in different ways. There is no right or wrong way of getting through it. You must do what feels right for you. Xx Moy
Thankyou I know. and our son has been doing most of it bless him that's been hard but yes I have loads of happy memories to look back on
So sorry your cat has had to be put to sleep. Its understandable you're very distraught. Sending hugs and love x
I hope you will get good news from the Brompton; you certainly deserve it (()) xx
I am so very sorry to hear about your dear little cat. You have had more than your share to deal with in such a short space of time and my heart goes out to you.
Oh, how awful for you, to lose that comforting little friend at such a time. ((((Hugs)))).
Sorry to hear that Itsmeagain, you do seem to be going through it at the moment. Sending love and best wishes 🤗💕
I do think even when you know it is still a shock and with Covid and people not be able to be there when they die it is so dredful. It is a sad time for everyone who has lost someone xx
That must have been awful Itsmeagain and as you say at least you can say goodbye next week. It is still hard though and the inquest too. Keep yourself safe and look after yourself you need strenght for the funeral.
Much love xx
A big hug for you Itsmeagain! I’m really sorry to hear of your losses! It’s a lot to deal with & your heart must be hurting so much. Just a big hug & keep your special memories close to your heart!
Thankyou it's been a rotten time all round my health losing my hubby and my little kittie hope that's it don't want anymore bad news awaiting results from the Brompton for myself as well pity I stopped smoking I could really do with one
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