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shangrila27
shangrila27
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My husband was discharged from hospital Monday evening and was so pleased to be coming home after 6 weeks in hospital .The two diagnoses from two consultants hadn't changed.One said his aortic stenosis was severe and the other said mild.The family and I had altered a downstairs lounge to a 2 single bed room, and had a portable rolling commode.We had two good days but on Thursday ,while the Carer was with me ,he collapsed and was rushed to A &E.He had 3 cardiac arrests and passed away .We are all shocked as this shouldn't have happened.The Dr wouldn't sign the death certificate and it has now been referred to the Coroner. Thankyou all for your previous good wishes and prayers

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Nicholatracy

So very sorry to hear your news. Prayers for you and your family ๐Ÿž

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Lynn193

So sorry for your loss. A terrible shock for you. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family ๐Ÿ’•

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RoadRunner44

Oh my dear, There is nothing that is going to comfort you at the moment. It is a terribly difficult time and I understand how you are feeling as the same thing happened to my husband 16 years ago. Try to keep stong as you will need to be during the next few weeks. Keep in touch with us as we will all try and be as supportive as possible. Love and hugs and a big Welsh Cwtch from me. Chrys x

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Dog12
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So so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family

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Bkin

So sorry for your loss shangrila - love and thoughts to you and yours

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powderpuff

So very sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you & your family.

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skischool

Dear Shangrila,please accept my sincere condolences to you and your family at this very sad time.words are others will state are meaningless at this time so i am just sending you strength at this moment in time.

Ski's and Scruffy x

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Fleurbaby

Such a sad thing to happen!

My thoughts are seriously with you & your family & friends that are hurting so much right now, God bless!

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Damon1864
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So very sorry to hear your dad news, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your, my your husband rest in peace.๐Ÿ˜ชxxx

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sassy59

My heart goes out to you and your family at this very sad time. So sorry to hear your news shangrila. Xxxxxx

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cofdrop-UK

Dear shagrila

I am so very sorry to hear of your very sad news. You must be totally devastated after having your dear husband home from hospital. It truly adds to the heartbreak when you have a Coroner involved.

My condolences to you and to your family and may you find strength through this most difficult time.

Please know we are here for you anytime you need or want us.

With love

Cx

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CDPO16

So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and your family at this very sad and difficult time.

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2greys

i do hope that he did not suffer too much and that his passing and stress was and painfull free, my thoughts are with you and your family.

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Oshgosh

Iโ€™m so sorry for your loss. You can possibly take some consolation from the fact that you had 2 good days at home together.

As itโ€™s been referred btonthe coroner you at get some answers.

Please look after yourself.

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Katinka46

So sorry, how dreadful for you all, and to have the investigation hanging over you. Love

Kate x

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Alice70

Sorry to hear this sad news shangrila ,awful times ,do take good care of yourself xx

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Ramy22

I am so sorry.... x

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HungryHufflepuff

Iโ€™m so sorry to hear this sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family ๐Ÿ’

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Hacienda

Dear Shangrila, So Sorry for your sad News. Sending my Condolences & Much Love to you & Your family for your very sad loss.

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judes

My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

Love and cyber hugs

J

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Kittykat2

Thinking of you โค๏ธ

๐Ÿ’•xx

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BrianTaylor

Iโ€™m so sorry to hear your sad news. Condolences to you and your family ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข

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Carnival567

Iโ€™m so sorry to hear your news. My thoughts are with you

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Gladwyn

Please accept my condolences . I'm so very sorry. Terrible shock for you and family .

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megshafer

With my sympathy, โš˜โš˜

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illawarra

How devastating shangrila27. Hugs and prayers for comfort for you and your family.

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joyce74

Thinking of you and your family at such a devastating time.

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jackdup

So awfully sorry to hear that. What a devastating outcome after the optimism of coming home. My condolences to the family.

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Ksb6420

So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

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MrsBumble2512

I am so very sorry to hear your sad news. My sincere condolences to you and the family. Stay strong x

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Emmles70

I am so very sorry for your loss ๐Ÿ˜ช x

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Gingerapple

Hello Shangrila,

I am so sorry to hear your news. I send prayers and if you need anything, if I can help you at this time, please write me. Hug, Bevโค๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’

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jennycherrie

So sorry for your loss Shangrila. My thoughts are with you.

Love Jenny x

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ostiad

I'm so sorry for your loss, what a shock for you and your family. Sending love xx

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garshe

So sorry for your Loss. Thinking of you and your Family.๐Ÿ˜ฅ

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Nevergiveup73

so sad to hear this im so sorry for your loss .love nevergiveup73

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Izb1

Dear Shangrila, I am so sorry to hear your sad news, my condolences to you and your family x

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BreatheasyBe

Sending my deepest condolences x

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Nicosn

I'm so so sorry xx

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nina30795

Wishing you strength and courage at this very difficult time, xxx

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Echoblue

So sorry to hear your sad news shangrila27. I hope you find comfort that your husband was able to spent those final 2 quality days at home with you. Hugs and thoughts X

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Margaret_craft

So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time. Love and hugs being sent. xx

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FlossyF

So sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you and your family. X

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Sassy67

So sorry for your loss! Hugs to you!

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Spring1

So sorry for you, itโ€™s a dreadful time. Try to look after yourself

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Leesea

So very sorry to hear this news. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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bikergrove

Sending you all my deepest sympathy, my thoughts and prayers are with you x

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Pinkwalker

Sending you huge hugs and kisses. Xxx

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frickypoo

Iโ€™m so sorry for your loss. I will pray for you for comfort. Iโ€™m a widow and I know itโ€™s not easy to live without your husband. โค๏ธ

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Badbessie

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

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vittorio

So sorry to hear this , my thoughts and prayers are with you โ€ฆโ€ฆ.

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Natashadawn

So sorry to hear this Shangrila. Thinking of you and your family x

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Hellodolly

So very, very sorry. All words are inadequate in the face of your loss. Sending love and hugs through the ether and wishing you strength in the weeks to come . Xxxx

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kathbrad3

So sorry for your loss I recently lost my husband so I know how you feel xx

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Janjan3000

So sorry to read about your husband my thoughts are with you and the family.

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MoyB

Thinking of you in your time of sadness. xx Moy

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stamford1234

Sorry to hear your news. I wish you strength over the coming days.

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Response

My deepest condolences.

The shock of a loved ones passing is like nothing else.

I hope when all the details are known, you will be comforted by the fact that he was a home with you and happy in is last days.

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Christabella153

So very sorry for the sudden loss of your husband the NHS is so stretched now that they get patients out ASAP glad the Coroner is involved at least you will have a full result of what went wrong. Once again deeply sorry for your loss in my thoughts & prayers XC

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helen1946

truly sorry for your loss. hoping you have loving family to help you carry on.god bless.

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astragal

So sorry for your sad loss. The life given us by nature is short, but the memory of a life well spent is eternal. Wishing you strength and comfort at this time.

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Hummingbird2

My condolences to you and your family.my prayers are with you.

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Shirleyj

So sorry for your loss x

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Blackcat99

Oh, Shangrila, so very sorry to hear that sad news. Please try to cling to the memory of those two good days, and let us know how things go with the coroner? Thinking of you.

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Purl123

So sorry to hear Your sad news my thoughts and prayers are with you i know exactly how you are feeling I had a similar experience back in May it has left me with very little faith in the medical profession I hope you get some answers that will help you through this difficult time God Bless x

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CELAT06

So so sorry, love and warm thoughts to you and your family. ๐Ÿ˜˜ XXX

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Patchpoppy2

So sorry shangrila27 . Such sad news. Thoughts are with you

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Aingeful

Thinking of you and your family.Sending loving hugs.xx

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Chestyblocked

I am so very sorry Sending you love and Strength โค๏ธ

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Chriskho

Very sad for you and your family shangrila . Thank goodness you have a loving family around you. ๐Ÿ™RIP dear husband.๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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Bingo88

So Sorry for your loss. Love and thoughts to you and the familyStay strong if you can Difficult days ahead, Cry and let your emotions and memories flow xxx

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pegbl

So sorry so sorry to hear your very sad news. My deepest condolences to you. Take care Xxx

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lesley2

So sorry

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madametobacco49

I send my sympathy and prayers in your time of loss. MmeT

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Redrum46

So sorry Iโ€™m thinking about you xxx

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Louiss

So sorry for your sad loss. Take care.

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Ergendl

Oh, how awful for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Glasgowgirl1947

Sorry for your loss, I pray you will find the answer to this terrible situation God bless xxx

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Dedalus

Such sad news; so very sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family and friends

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Corin1950

So sorry to read this sad news.

Iโ€™ve somehow missed your previous posts so have just read them and can see youโ€™ve both had a very tough time.

Although itโ€™s difficult to think of anything to say please comfort yourself with the fact that you have shown him unstinting care and devotion through the years and you have a wonderful family to sustain and support you.

All your HU friends are here for you too.

Sending you and your family my very best wishes

Love

Corin

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georgygirl2

I am so sorry for your sudden loss. You are in my thoughts and my heart goes out to you and your family at this very sad time.

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peege

Oh goodness I'm so deeply sorry to hear your sad news but at the same time so pleased he had the joy of looking forward so much to hus homecoming to you and yours.

My heart goes out to you. Peege

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Elvisajc

So sorry for your loss, Shangrila. God bless you. Prayers going up!

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Sandyeggo

Condolences from my family to yours

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Knittingnora55

Oh such sad news about your husband my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family I do hope you get the answers you were looking for god bless x

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Susan1200

I am so very sorry to read your sad ๐Ÿฅบ news, what a terrible shock for you and your family.

Sending ๐Ÿ‘ผ Prayers ๐Ÿ™ to you all โœจ

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patmc1

I'm so very sorry.

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Ern007

Very very sorry to hear this. Must have been a sock the way it was. Very sad and my prayers are with him and family.

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Neville33

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hallentine47

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

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Nik5769

So sorry for your loss.

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Busybee57

Dear Shangrila I donโ€™t visit the site much at the moment but having read your post just wanted to send my love to you and your family and to let you know I am thinking of you and sending my sincere condolences xxx โค๏ธโค๏ธ

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Piperava

So very sorry for your loss, sending you and your family deepest condolences. Stay strong and take comfort knowing other care. ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

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goat-lady

So sorry for this tragic event. I hope the coroner's report may help you cope a bit better from the shock and grief. Every best wish for you.

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Fruitbat2

So sorry that your husband died.

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Pompy

So sorry for your sad news

God Bless

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LUPIELASSY13

Prayers

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Jomo46

What a shock for you. Wishes of strength and love . Be kind to yourself. Such a sad time xxxxxxx

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jmsutt

So very sorry for your lose. Wishing you peace in the coming days. J

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dickinson1954

Oh my sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are winging their way to you. Must have been an enormous shock . xx

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2Bupi13onok

Hello Shangrila so sorry to hear your news, sending love and prayers. I t must have been a terrible shock for you. x

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MicBel

๐Ÿ˜” so sorry to hear of your loss.

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Don-1931

I don't know how I missed seeing this earlier, what a terrible shock for you. I am so very sorry. ๐Ÿ˜ฅ

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house77

Hi so very sorry with the loss of your husband..My dad who was 83 passed away 2 weeks ago..He had the severve aortic stenosis too.He had no surgery, but had lots of appointments to look more into surgery at some stage..My dad went into hospital with blood in his stools,the very next day he had a cardiac arrest and passed away.. We are all in shock as it was so sudden Dads having a post mortem, as we was not to happy with the hospital ..If you want to chat anytime ,I will be there..Big hugs. Xx

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Caspiana

Hello shangrila27 ,

I am terribly sorry to read this. It must be an awful shock for you and your family. I am happy however, that you and your husband had a good two days back in your own home. I am sending you my love and a gentle hug.

May you remember the love more than the loss. ๐ŸŒน

Cas xx

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Louisa41

So sorry to hear your sad news. Having a close family member come home from hospital after major emergency surgery we know how happy you must have been. Such a shock so soon. God bless.

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ninelives

Sending love ,prayers and hugs

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Kitten-kat23

I am so so sorry.

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