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Very sad update

shangrila27
shangrila27

My husband was discharged from hospital Monday evening and was so pleased to be coming home after 6 weeks in hospital .The two diagnoses from two consultants hadn't changed.One said his aortic stenosis was severe and the other said mild.The family and I had altered a downstairs lounge to a 2 single bed room, and had a portable rolling commode.We had two good days but on Thursday ,while the Carer was with me ,he collapsed and was rushed to A &E.He had 3 cardiac arrests and passed away .We are all shocked as this shouldn't have happened.The Dr wouldn't sign the death certificate and it has now been referred to the Coroner. Thankyou all for your previous good wishes and prayers

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So very sorry to hear your news. Prayers for you and your family 🐞

So sorry for your loss. A terrible shock for you. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family 💕

Oh my dear, There is nothing that is going to comfort you at the moment. It is a terribly difficult time and I understand how you are feeling as the same thing happened to my husband 16 years ago. Try to keep stong as you will need to be during the next few weeks. Keep in touch with us as we will all try and be as supportive as possible. Love and hugs and a big Welsh Cwtch from me. Chrys x

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So so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family

So sorry for your loss shangrila - love and thoughts to you and yours

So very sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you & your family.

Dear Shangrila,please accept my sincere condolences to you and your family at this very sad time.words are others will state are meaningless at this time so i am just sending you strength at this moment in time.

Ski's and Scruffy x

Such a sad thing to happen!

My thoughts are seriously with you & your family & friends that are hurting so much right now, God bless!

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So very sorry to hear your dad news, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your, my your husband rest in peace.😪xxx

My heart goes out to you and your family at this very sad time. So sorry to hear your news shangrila. Xxxxxx

Dear shagrila

I am so very sorry to hear of your very sad news. You must be totally devastated after having your dear husband home from hospital. It truly adds to the heartbreak when you have a Coroner involved.

My condolences to you and to your family and may you find strength through this most difficult time.

Please know we are here for you anytime you need or want us.

With love

Cx

So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and your family at this very sad and difficult time.

i do hope that he did not suffer too much and that his passing and stress was and painfull free, my thoughts are with you and your family.

I’m so sorry for your loss. You can possibly take some consolation from the fact that you had 2 good days at home together.

As it’s been referred btonthe coroner you at get some answers.

Please look after yourself.

So sorry, how dreadful for you all, and to have the investigation hanging over you. Love

Kate x

Sorry to hear this sad news shangrila ,awful times ,do take good care of yourself xx

I am so sorry.... x

I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family 💐

Dear Shangrila, So Sorry for your sad News. Sending my Condolences & Much Love to you & Your family for your very sad loss.

My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

Love and cyber hugs

J

Thinking of you ❤️

💕xx

I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. Condolences to you and your family 😢😢

I’m so sorry to hear your news. My thoughts are with you

Please accept my condolences . I'm so very sorry. Terrible shock for you and family .

With my sympathy, ⚘⚘

How devastating shangrila27. Hugs and prayers for comfort for you and your family.

Thinking of you and your family at such a devastating time.

So awfully sorry to hear that. What a devastating outcome after the optimism of coming home. My condolences to the family.

So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

I am so very sorry to hear your sad news. My sincere condolences to you and the family. Stay strong x

I am so very sorry for your loss 😪 x

Hello Shangrila,

I am so sorry to hear your news. I send prayers and if you need anything, if I can help you at this time, please write me. Hug, Bev❤🙏💐

So sorry for your loss Shangrila. My thoughts are with you.

Love Jenny x

I'm so sorry for your loss, what a shock for you and your family. Sending love xx

So sorry for your Loss. Thinking of you and your Family.😥

so sad to hear this im so sorry for your loss .love nevergiveup73

Dear Shangrila, I am so sorry to hear your sad news, my condolences to you and your family x

Sending my deepest condolences x

I'm so so sorry xx

Wishing you strength and courage at this very difficult time, xxx

So sorry to hear your sad news shangrila27. I hope you find comfort that your husband was able to spent those final 2 quality days at home with you. Hugs and thoughts X

So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time. Love and hugs being sent. xx

So sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you and your family. X

So sorry for your loss! Hugs to you!

So sorry for you, it’s a dreadful time. Try to look after yourself

So very sorry to hear this news. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Sending you all my deepest sympathy, my thoughts and prayers are with you x

Sending you huge hugs and kisses. Xxx

I’m so sorry for your loss. I will pray for you for comfort. I’m a widow and I know it’s not easy to live without your husband. ❤️

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

So sorry to hear this , my thoughts and prayers are with you …….

So sorry to hear this Shangrila. Thinking of you and your family x

So very, very sorry. All words are inadequate in the face of your loss. Sending love and hugs through the ether and wishing you strength in the weeks to come . Xxxx

So sorry for your loss I recently lost my husband so I know how you feel xx

So sorry to read about your husband my thoughts are with you and the family.

Thinking of you in your time of sadness. xx Moy

Sorry to hear your news. I wish you strength over the coming days.

My deepest condolences.

The shock of a loved ones passing is like nothing else.

I hope when all the details are known, you will be comforted by the fact that he was a home with you and happy in is last days.

So very sorry for the sudden loss of your husband the NHS is so stretched now that they get patients out ASAP glad the Coroner is involved at least you will have a full result of what went wrong. Once again deeply sorry for your loss in my thoughts & prayers XC

truly sorry for your loss. hoping you have loving family to help you carry on.god bless.

So sorry for your sad loss. The life given us by nature is short, but the memory of a life well spent is eternal. Wishing you strength and comfort at this time.

My condolences to you and your family.my prayers are with you.

So sorry for your loss x

Oh, Shangrila, so very sorry to hear that sad news. Please try to cling to the memory of those two good days, and let us know how things go with the coroner? Thinking of you.

So sorry to hear Your sad news my thoughts and prayers are with you i know exactly how you are feeling I had a similar experience back in May it has left me with very little faith in the medical profession I hope you get some answers that will help you through this difficult time God Bless x

So so sorry, love and warm thoughts to you and your family. 😘 XXX

So sorry shangrila27 . Such sad news. Thoughts are with you

Thinking of you and your family.Sending loving hugs.xx

I am so very sorry Sending you love and Strength ❤️

Very sad for you and your family shangrila . Thank goodness you have a loving family around you. 🙏RIP dear husband.😘😘

So Sorry for your loss. Love and thoughts to you and the familyStay strong if you can Difficult days ahead, Cry and let your emotions and memories flow xxx

So sorry so sorry to hear your very sad news. My deepest condolences to you. Take care Xxx

So sorry

I send my sympathy and prayers in your time of loss. MmeT

So sorry I’m thinking about you xxx

So sorry for your sad loss. Take care.

Oh, how awful for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sorry for your loss, I pray you will find the answer to this terrible situation God bless xxx

Such sad news; so very sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family and friends

So sorry to read this sad news.

I’ve somehow missed your previous posts so have just read them and can see you’ve both had a very tough time.

Although it’s difficult to think of anything to say please comfort yourself with the fact that you have shown him unstinting care and devotion through the years and you have a wonderful family to sustain and support you.

All your HU friends are here for you too.

Sending you and your family my very best wishes

Love

Corin

I am so sorry for your sudden loss. You are in my thoughts and my heart goes out to you and your family at this very sad time.

Oh goodness I'm so deeply sorry to hear your sad news but at the same time so pleased he had the joy of looking forward so much to hus homecoming to you and yours.

My heart goes out to you. Peege

So sorry for your loss, Shangrila. God bless you. Prayers going up!

Condolences from my family to yours

Oh such sad news about your husband my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family I do hope you get the answers you were looking for god bless x

I am so very sorry to read your sad 🥺 news, what a terrible shock for you and your family.

Sending 👼 Prayers 🙏 to you all ✨

I'm so very sorry.

Very very sorry to hear this. Must have been a sock the way it was. Very sad and my prayers are with him and family.

🙏💖

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

So sorry for your loss.

Dear Shangrila I don’t visit the site much at the moment but having read your post just wanted to send my love to you and your family and to let you know I am thinking of you and sending my sincere condolences xxx ❤️❤️

So very sorry for your loss, sending you and your family deepest condolences. Stay strong and take comfort knowing other care. 💔💔💔

So sorry for this tragic event. I hope the coroner's report may help you cope a bit better from the shock and grief. Every best wish for you.

So sorry that your husband died.

So sorry for your sad news

God Bless

Prayers

What a shock for you. Wishes of strength and love . Be kind to yourself. Such a sad time xxxxxxx

So very sorry for your lose. Wishing you peace in the coming days. J

Oh my sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are winging their way to you. Must have been an enormous shock . xx

Hello Shangrila so sorry to hear your news, sending love and prayers. I t must have been a terrible shock for you. x

😔 so sorry to hear of your loss.

I don't know how I missed seeing this earlier, what a terrible shock for you. I am so very sorry. 😥

Hi so very sorry with the loss of your husband..My dad who was 83 passed away 2 weeks ago..He had the severve aortic stenosis too.He had no surgery, but had lots of appointments to look more into surgery at some stage..My dad went into hospital with blood in his stools,the very next day he had a cardiac arrest and passed away.. We are all in shock as it was so sudden Dads having a post mortem, as we was not to happy with the hospital ..If you want to chat anytime ,I will be there..Big hugs. Xx

Hello shangrila27 ,

I am terribly sorry to read this. It must be an awful shock for you and your family. I am happy however, that you and your husband had a good two days back in your own home. I am sending you my love and a gentle hug.

May you remember the love more than the loss. 🌹

Cas xx

So sorry to hear your sad news. Having a close family member come home from hospital after major emergency surgery we know how happy you must have been. Such a shock so soon. God bless.

Sending love ,prayers and hugs

I am so so sorry.

Oh no, how sad. I'm so sorry to hear this shangrila27.

I send all my love, hugs and best wishes your way. ❣️💜💕💐🌸🌹

So sorry to read of your loss My thoughts are with you at this time of year. My hubby has heart disease and was told 3 weeks before a massive heart attack( crudely called a widow maker ) . that his was heart by the g p this was after he had complained of a tight feeling in his chest and other symptoms and so we felt we had nothing to be concerned about .luckily he is still with us but is not in good health and is a invalid because of this .He had his heart attack when he was 37 years old

xx

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