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I have no choice now.i am going to take care of my mom.i can't live like this anymore .my loser roomate who never leaves his room who I bought ciggs for the other day so I can ask him nice to stop with the dam airfreshner is in his room spraying the stuff cause he is probably smoking crack or meth.i a.have to get up for work early and I had to close my vents and open windows and I am wearing a dam mask trying to sleep.thete is something wrong with this man 8 months in his room knocked on my door other day asked me for 10 dollars told him I didn't have it and came out of my room 10 minutes later to find him at the kitchen table hands on head staring down like he was freaking out he asked me for money cause he is probably a dam junkie.i can't live this way anymore.im going in again to talk to boss I need full time soon or I have to live with mom.i do everything to take care of myself eat right exercise but I need clean air or it's useless .I can't wind up like my dad I won't make it.i can't live like this anymore I deserve more .if it isn't this maniac it will be someone else.i knocked on his door to ask him nicely to stop 3 times he won't even answer.i have had enough I will fulfill dad's wishes and take care of Mom and put in for a transfer.i will have clean air to breathe.sorry I'm rambling but I'm a wreck.i can't do this anymore!!!?

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HungryHufflepuff

I think it's great you're going to move in with your mum and take care of her. She needs you right now. And the situation with your roommate is not good for you. Getting out of there will be good for you, and being with your mum will be good for you both. And it's not forever. You can still move into other accommodation in the future. Or you might find it's great living with your mum and choose to stay with her. But it seems to me me she's unhappy, and you're very unhappy living where you are now, and this can be resolved relatively easily and quickly by you moving from where you are now and going to be with your mum. Wishing you all the best 🤞

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sassy59

Get yourself out of there hope because of the man is a junkie he’ll never change. He needs help but that’s not your problem. Go with your mum, new adventures ahead. Good luck to you. Xxx

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jmsutt73

Dear,

God has a plan and it sounds as if He is drawing you a map, showing you the way forward. HungryHufflepuff is spot on. You and your Mom need one another right now, and it doesn't have to be forever. Your roommate has obviously fallen into some dark hole. Sad, but his habits are a threat to your health. Leave. Prayers with you and family. J

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Oshgosh

I really think that with the ongoing problems with air fresheners,you need not to be sharing with anyone else.

I hope your mum is ok

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