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Firstly, I want to Thank you all for your Wonderful Positive Messages, I have replied to Everyone of you. Because I can, Because I'm Alive & You all are. I am finding it a Difficult Post as This Close to my Heart. My Sister in law ( My Ex's Wife) my Friend, Step Mum to Mine and Nana to our Grandchildren & Great. My Daughter as you know has been away in Rome, Wendy was Diagnosed with Lung Cancer & COPD in one Cruel Swoop. My Daughter had been sleeping with her at the Hospital, But her arrangements for Rome could not be "Put Off", So, our Beautiful Wendy waited for her Return, My Daughter has Told me this Morning That Her Step Mum wants all her family There, she knows it is Time to Go. The Fantastic Hospital had done all they Could do for her. Now it is time for the Heavy Sedation to allow her to go Peacefully. The Cruelty is, That Cancer & COPD came along in April, She had no time to Understand it all. She is only 57 with a Beautiful Heart. Everyone Here, Keep yourselves as Well as you can and Please Forgive me for Allaying this sad Post. I am so Grateful to you All, at least we can Talk together with Knowledge of our Health. Love n Hugs to everyone. Carolina. xxxx

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2greys

Such sad news Carolina and she is still so relatively young. I hope that her last days are comfortable and that her wish for her family to be there comes to fruition.

This very sad news is so relevant to myself, it makes me realise just how lucky I am, this could so very easily have been me.

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Hacienda in reply to 2greys

Thank you Hun, So Glad your pulled through. We have to Look after Each other. I wish I was with her, but she does live in Spain. Thank fully my Daughter got through her Breast cancer and is now with Wendy. Stay Strong Hun. Love n Hugs. XXXX

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Shaurene in reply to Hacienda

Ah, Shit, that is so sad and her so young. That hit her so fast. Life is a real shit at times, but that's how it goes Guys. God Bless All.

New Zealand Scouser Kenny.

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Patsy164

Oh Carolina what sad news so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you all. With news like this it really hits home how precious life is. Look after yourself and will be thinking of you all at this sad time. Xx 🙏❤️

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Hacienda in reply to Patsy164

Thank you for your Lovely Words. Yes, it does hit home. Take care Patsy. Love n Hugs, C. xxxx

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Katinka46

Dear Carolina. So very hard for you all. Loads of love and hugs to you all

Kate xxx

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Hacienda in reply to Katinka46

Thank You Kate. Makes you think, "There for the Grace of " Yes, I was in Bits this Morning, I was aware that she may not pull through, It all happened so fast. Thanks Kate, Take Care Hun. Love n Hugs. C. XXX

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Shaurene in reply to Hacienda

Sorry Hacienda

I took it that you lost your wife and assumed you were male.

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Kittykat2

So sorry to read your news .

I'm sure everyone on here sends you and all your family love and best wishes.

Stay as strong as you always are...... such a very positive and valuable friend on here to all who post .

Hope her future days are comfortable for her🙏❤️

💕xx

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Hacienda in reply to Kittykat2

Thank You Hun for your Lovely Words, I value them. Stay well. Love n Hugs. C. XXXX

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HungryHufflepuff

I’m so sorry to know this. Sending you and your family lots of love. You’ll all be in my thoughts and prayers. Big hugs to you 💐

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Hacienda in reply to HungryHufflepuff

Thank You HH, Your Words mean so Much to me. Love n Hugs C. XXX

There are no words. I am thinking about you and your family and holding your hand. X 💕

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Hacienda in reply to

Thank you my Love, Reassurance with your Hand holding mine, Stay Well. Love n Hugs C. xxxxx

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sassy59

Terribly sad news dear Carolina and my heart goes out to you and your family.

I’m thinking of you all and holding you in my heart. Love and peaceful hugs. Xxxx

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Lemon7

So sorry to hear the heart breaking time you and your family are going through. Take care of one another.

So sorry Carolina, we must keep battling on. 💐🌈

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peege

No words, I'm just so so sorry. ❤️

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soulboy118

Beautifully put 😥

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Blackbird6

I'm so sorry lots of love and hugs to you and yours Hacienda 💞💞💞

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skischool

Carino,i know in my heart that you could see events unfolding and it always amazes me how you remain so positive and vibrant but now it is time for you to lean back into the loving arms of your family and friends as this very brave lady leaves the world surrounded also by her loved ones.

Much love Ski's and Scruff's xxx

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Hacienda in reply to skischool

Gracias Carino. I will put it on your Reply, My Lovely Wendy Passed this Morning half an hour after The Sedation was Given. Thank you everyone who sent Beautiful Messages this Morning. RIP Beautiful Friend, Sister in Law, Step Mum to My Children, Aunty to The older Grandkids , Nana to the Great Children. Thank You Wendy. xxxx

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skischool in reply to Hacienda

Fly free Wendy R.I.P condolences to you Carino and all your family.

Love Ski's and Scruff's xx

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sassy59 in reply to Hacienda

Rest in peace dearest Wendy. Heartfelt sympathies to all Carolina. Lots of love. Xxx🌻

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Whitechinchilla in reply to Hacienda

What devastating news for you and yours Hacienda with so little time to prepare yourselves for such a huge loss. Not that you ever could.

Reading you talk of your family it is so clear what a tight bond you all have and I pray this will sustain you, and yours.

May your dear friend rest now in peace and may your own god give peace to you and your family in time.

Thank you for always “ being there “ for all of us and you do so always with such love and care and despite your own difficulties.

You are loved by so many here and may that help to ease the pain just a fraction.

Deepest sympathy and love. x

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Lee1945 in reply to Hacienda

So sorry to hear this. At least you know that she is no longer in pain and I hope you find some comfort in knowing that.

My heart goes out to you and I wish you comfort and peace. Look after yourself.

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hypercat54

Hi I am very sorry to hear this Carolina and send my love to all your family. Life can be very cruel sometimes and 57 is no age to leave it. Bev xx

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Vee70

Oh Carolina, such sad news. Love & prayers sent 🙏 xx

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soul-123

Thinking of you at this sad time love to you all X

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Echoblue

My love and thoughts to you and your family at this very difficult time. Pam 💐🥀 🤗 x

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Carnival567

So sad, my thoughts are with you all. Many blessings xx

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Yatzy

Thinking of you, Carolina. It’s very hard to accept losing a loved one so soon and so suddenly. Hugs 🤗 xxx

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HungryHufflepuff

I am so sorry to hear this sad news. My thoughts are with you and all your family.

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megshafer

My Sympathy.

Meg🌹

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Copdstuart

My deepest sympathy to you and all family and friends. My thoughts are with you.

Lorraine

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Valsha

My thoughts are with you and all your family. Xxxxx

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Croydonia

So sorry Hacienda, life is very cruel sometimes.

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Alfiebax2

Oh Carolina what terribly sad news , and so young .I send the biggest of hugs to all of you at this very sad time and it makes me ,and im sure the rest of us , so very grateful that we are still here .There are no words to make it better so I won't try .I'm just going to send you all my love and strength to carry you all through this very sad time .My heart goes out to you all.😢💔💐♥️♥️♥️

Always Babs xxxx

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davecarol2

so very sad and sorry to read this rip dear Wendy my thoughts are with you hacienda Davy boy xx

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watergazer

R,I,P, Wendy. So sad . Sending you all hugs and prayers. xx

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Trishe

Love and prayers sent to you all ♥️

So sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you and your family. I don't post a lot, but your posts always give me inspiration and support, xxxxx

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Shirleyj

Such sad news, feel for you and your family x x x🌺🌹💖🌹🌺

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welshtony

So sad to hear, you are all in my prayers

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Margaret_craft

Very sad news Carolina, and still a young woman. I count my blessings everyday and give thanks for my life,family, and friends. We are here for each other to give support when needed, and to listen to, which is a big help. My thoughts are with you all, sending love and hugs. Take care. xx🌹🌹

Terrible news for this lady I hope that peace finds her and us as we all are all trying to extend that day my as much as we can will be thinking of u 😢

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Aingeful

What can anyone say!! This is such a sad situation for someone so young and her family. My thoughts are with you all.Cuidate mucho.xx

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Collie4

So sorry to hear your sad news. May you all be given strength to bear this very difficult time.

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ScouseTaffy

So this sad situation shows we should live each day to the full. Make the most of our time here xxx

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ledge

Rest blessed in peace dear Wendy. May your loved ones left behind feel the warmth of your love radiated back to them in their dark hours of grief.

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PurpleAlf

I am sorry for the loss of friend, she sounds like a lovely person. Remember to take time to grieve properly and look after yourself x

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helen1946

God bless

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Izb1

Oh Carolina, such sad news, my heart is breaking for you and your family, much love is sent your way through this sad time, hugs Irene x

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Corin1950

Thinking of you, Carolina.

Best wishes to you and your family

Love

Corin

X

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Comino2

Such sad news .my thoughts are with you xx

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Sandyeggo

Wow I’m sorry pain is hitting too close to your heart. Hopefully those by her bedside can help her make a smooth comfortable transition out of this life and onto her next assignment, that’s just how I vision it is bcuz if I thought this life was it and nothing at all happens after this I’d have lost my mind by now. Take good care

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Gladwyn

I am so very sorry . Please accept my condolences at this heartbreaking time. Xxx

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Ergendl

Oh, what sad news. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

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Eian59

May God ease your pain and suffering and give you peace.Sometimes this world can be cruel to us. But at least we have our memories to look back on happier time's.

It makes you realise how fragile this life is.

take care.

Eian

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Bingo88

Such sad news for you Carolina, So cruel to have 2 things in 1. Thoughts are with you as you go through the most difficult time. Love and Hugs BRIAN XXX

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