Well had my day in court!!

[Skatergirl1]

The ex turned up with his new wife in tow for company, bless... Proceedings adjourned for two weeks to enable me to provide evidence etc to him in relation to questions he sent me Sat.. Ex sat unfront of judge and said three times, that he took out his pension when he was 18, but his paperwork states he was 22, and he stopped paying after a year, only to resume when we were married and continued until we seperated, silly man clutching a straws. Judge advised that we try and come to an agreement before next hearing....I am exhausted, time for a glass of 🍷 x

[sassy59]

Oh well, see what happens in two weeks time. Hold your head high and enjoy your wine. Xxxx

[Skatergirl1 in reply to sassy59]

Thank you x

[Hidden in reply to Skatergirl1]

Good luck with your fight. At least you have two weeks to get the information you require. At least that was kind of the judge. By the way enjoy the wine

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Hidden]

Hi camilla22, haha I wasn't impressed with the judge!! Spent whole weekend collating info for the ex and brought to court, judge said couldn't hand info to him personally as had to have proof that I gave it to him, the judge was sitting there!! (He needs to go to spec savers) if he couldn't act as witness....but had to post it???? So now await 2 weeks more xx

[Hidden in reply to Skatergirl1]

I mean it gives you more time if you need to get some more information that your ex might need. Think about it that way. I know what the legal system can be like. I had a family problem that took me 3 years give or take to get it sorted out. Also gives the judge time to read the paperwork and make thier mind up on how to rule on the case.

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Hidden]

Ah...I know get what you are saying, thank you. Didn't know what to expect today, thought they were going to ask lots of questions and go through paperwork, but he didn't. I left feeling confused..

[Hidden in reply to Skatergirl1]

I felt the same after what i messaged you but trust me you will get there. Judge's need time to read the paperwork and work out sort of questions to ask if there is any to ask. Also check what doctors say as it can be in medical term's judge's don't understand

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Hidden]

The wine is going down well, thank you....hic!!

[Yatzy]

Cheers, Skatergirl, you’ve earned it. Sounds like things might be going in the right direction for you. Fingers crossed 🤞 xx

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Yatzy]

Thank you x

[wheezyof]

Hello,

It's good that he lied. Judges do not take kindly to lies. Enjoy your wine xx

[Skatergirl1 in reply to wheezyof]

I am thank you....hic hic x

[Hacienda]

We are all here for you Hun. Enjoy a few tipples. The Judge has given two weeks. So it will be in your Favour and you know it will. Salud. xxxx

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Hacienda]

Mucho gracias y mi vino rosado es muy bien xx

[Caspiana]

Hello Skatergirl1 . I just read your original post. What an awfully trying time this is for you. Plus having to see his ugly mug in court! .😠😡 I hope it all goes in your favour. You do don't need this stress. *HUG* Take care of yourself. xx 😘🌷

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Caspiana]

Thank you Caspiana, and yes he has aged and going grey lol xx. Hopefully in 2 weeks it will be over xx. Being on the 🌞

[Caspiana in reply to Skatergirl1]

You will shine like the 🌞 !! 😊

[HungryHufflepuff]

You did amazing. Good luck for two weeks time ✨

[Skatergirl1 in reply to HungryHufflepuff]

Thank you x

[Carnival567]

He shouldn’t have lied, but it won’t help one little bit, and can only help you. Good luck for the next hearing xx

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Carnival567]

Thank you x

[2greys]

It may also help your case to dig out your cancer diagnosis and any documentation from when he left you, to tie the two together.

[Skatergirl1 in reply to 2greys]

Hi Two greys, thank you for your comments. yes I took everything to court yesterday, but the judge dismissed that part and said to my ex that it was irrelevant to the case, meaning I shouldn't have to prove it to him!! My ex also lied in court yesterday regarding his pension, which I have great pleasure in documenting and sending in evidence to court today, ready for next hearing xx

[watergazer]

What a palaver!! Carry on the good fight. x

[Shirleyj]

Keep your chin up girl, you will have your day. Hope you enjoyed your wine x😊😊🍷

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Shirleyj]

Thank you...I certainly did xx

[cofdrop-UK]

Hope you enjoyed your wine S. Arrogance and purjury - not a great combination for his case! It’s a horrid experience, even when right is on your side. Shall we all get a botte of wine in to join in your celebrations in 2 weeks time?

Cx

[Skatergirl1 in reply to cofdrop-UK]

Haha.....that sounds a great idea, group party🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷💝

[Feelingblessed2013]

In 2 weeks you shall emerge victorious. You are a beautiful butterfly and he is a slug.

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Feelingblessed2013]

Haha....that made me laugh..thank you xx

[Feelingblessed2013 in reply to Skatergirl1]

Thank you. Every once is a great while I come up with a comment that is both true and humorous. 😁

[Corin1950]

Hi

I've just caught up with your posts and I'm appalled by your ex's behaviour ( and that of new model). It's always traumatic when a long relationship ends and more so if you're the one that had been 'Left' but judging by his present actions you are well rid and at least can enjoy the rest of your life without having to put up with living with a lying, snivelling, immoral cheater. His new wife deserves him! Hope you get everything and more of what you are entitled to. You deserve it. Enjoy your life without him and raise a glass to happiness and freedom. I'm just going to raise one to you.

Stay strong

Love

Corin

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Corin1950]

Thank you so much for your reply, and yes chin, chin🍷🍷to health, wealth and happiness xx

[Dedalus]

All very best of luck xx

[Skatergirl1 in reply to Dedalus]

thank you x