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lolland2013
lolland2013
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I have not written much, but I have always read what you all have posted, sadly my husband John passed away on 23 December, he went to hospice on the 22 Dec. so it all happen very quickly, did not see it coming, started his rescue on the 21st, because he thought he might have an infection, normally they would do the trick, but not this time, I am thankful for he got to Hospice, such a lovely place, wonderful staff, and our Doctors surgery has been so good to my husband as well, nothing to complain about. You all take care and look after your selves xx

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reiver

so sorry for your loss.

condolences to you and familyx.

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stone-UK

Hi

Sincere condolences to you and family.

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Kas100

My thoughts are with you.

Xx

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mrsmummy

I am really sorry to hear this. My condolences and may he rest in peace. x

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Yatzy

So very sorry to hear about your husband. It has been a great shock to you, I’m sure. At least he was in the hospice...they’re usually wonderfully kind and caring places that would help you both to cope. Stay strong...xx

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revagayle

So sorry for you loss. My thoughts are with you.

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Hanne62

I am so sad for you, lolland, what a shock for it to happen so quickly. I hope you have family around you at this time.

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hypercat54

So sorry for your loss lolland. My thoughts are with you. x

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Caspiana

My dear lolland2013 . I am so very sorry for your loss. *gentle hug* 🌹

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BillBruce

So sorry to hear of your loss.

God bless you

Bill

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So sorry for your loss.,

My deepest sympathy xx

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moogle

So sorry for your lost. But it is good that he died in a hospice where he would have been given excellent care.

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0101

I am so sorry for your loss. Please take very good care of yourself and will be thinking of you x

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scotagee

So sad for you. I had a similar experience almost seven years ago and know how your heart is aching. It's now time for you to take care of you.

All the lovely things people say to you won't take away the pain but I hope they will give you the strength you need to get through this difficult time.

Sending you hugs x

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queen

Sincere condolences to you and family sending love.

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Cherrhea60

So sorry for your loss. You have my deepest sympathies. People say these things at difficult times like this in an effort to make them feel better. Truth... The only thing made me feel better 9 years ago as my mother passed and 2 years ago when my sister passed in the very bed and home I sleep in now is that the died peacefully and not alone while holding my hand. Finally it is God's will and there is Glory in the Kingdom of Heaven.

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raz40

So sorry

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Ramy22

I am so sorry. X

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Clarissa2000

Thinking of you - and remember to take care of yourself

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Sonsafc

Sorry for your loss Lolland. My thoughts and prayers are with you. You now have to take time for yourself, and to reflect and move on with your own life. It won't be easy, I'm sure. Try focusing only on the good times with your hubby, until your ready to move on. My condolences.

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Malbow

So sad of your loss chin up girl be strong

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Libb

So sorry for your loss.

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ostiad

I'm so sorry for your loss which happened so quickly, it must have been such a shock. Take care, June x

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Lindy-loo1949

I am so very sorry for your loss.

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Ergendl

So sorry to hear about your husband passing away. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

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Nicosn

I'm really sorry for your loss x

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katieoxo60

My deepest sympathy to you and your family on your recent loss of your husband over Christmas. My thoughts are with you at this sad time, take care x

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bulpit

So sad to read your news,Agony to loose someone you have loved for so long.. hopefully the love of friends and family will help you through your darkest days, with sympathy Bulpit

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Magpuss

Very sorry for your loss, my condolences to and your family💐

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Izb1

So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you x

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Hacienda

Sincere condolences to you and your family, So very sad. XXX

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Carnival567

Very sad for you, my sincere condolences xx

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dickinson1954

Sorry to hear of your loss. Take care of yourself . Thinking of you and your family x

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sassy59

Deepest sympathies to you and family. Take care xxxx

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annie-63

❤️

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mumofmums

I am so sorry about your husband. I hope that you are keep it together. Love to you and you family.xx

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Karenhskippy

So sorry for your loss.

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peege

So sorry to read your news lolland. Thinking of you and I'm glad it was all the best it could be for you with the hospice and supportive GP practice. I'm hoping you've loved ones around you for support too. You're welcome here anytime you feel the need. Peege xxx

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Mum7452

I feel for you I really do. It must be so hard without your beloved husband. Big hugs coming your way xxxx

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Shirleyj

So sorry for your loss x

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guytane

respect rip

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Budgie1954

Sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you are able to find solace from friends and family

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Nanaeal

So sorry to hear of your sad loss, condolences to you and your family Ann

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Twigletto

I am so sorry to hear of your husband's sudden passing. My heart goes out to you. I hope you have friends and family to support you at this difficult time xx

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Devonishire

I am so sorry for you’re loss, condolences to you and you’re family xx

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GrammaLaurie

So sorry to hear of your husbands passing. Take care of yourself. God bless

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Paulinemr

So sorry to hear about your husband . Take care x

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Foxy79

Hello foxy79

I'm so sorry for your loss you take care of your self

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Tilly2402

So sorry for your loss.

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Deb1702

So very sorry to hear your sad news. 😢😢sending hugs

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skischool

So sorry to hear of your loss,but thankful that the hospice staff and surgery were kind and thoughtful in his care............skis and scruff x

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So very sorry for your loss, but you have all those wonder memories . God bless you . Love Bernadette xxx

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So sorry to hear your sad news.....My he Rest in peace.

Take care and look after yourself.

Jo.

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Dedalus

So Sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace. Sincere condolences to family and friends x

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Kitten-kat23

I am so very sorry. My condolences to you and your family.

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hallentine47

Our love and thoughts are with you and all the family.

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B0xermad

So sorry xx

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Plumbob

I'm so sorry for your loss (regardless of what time of year it is it is heart-breaking !!)

Our heart felt condolences are with you and your family during this traumatic time.

I hope you have plenty of support around you ? It's important !!!!

Take care of Yourself

Owen xx

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Sphelan

I'm so sorry for your loss. May peace be with you during this sad time.

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Stumpy55

Hello lolland2013, very sorry to hear you lost your husband. May he R.I.P and God Bless you. 🙏

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Christabella153

In my thoughts & prayers

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Offcut

So sorry for you loss. My thoughts are with you.

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O2Trees

Very sad lolland, so sorry to hear. Thinking of you and hoping your memories will come to be a source of comfort. Take good care of yourself during this horribly sad time.

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cofdrop-UK

My thoughts go out to you lolland at the sad passing of your dear Husbnd. Such a shock for you but I hope you were both surrounded by excellent care and support will bring some comfort.

With love

cx

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Piggybum

So sorry for you loss xx

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jimmyg23

Sincere condolences to you and all the family

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Tugun

So sorry for your loss. Sending you warm thoughts for the time ahead.

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Yellowrose79

Condolences to you and your family.

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Marcus7

Hi lolland, so sorry to hear about your husband. That's heartbreaking. Please take care of yourself.

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Sparkimoore

So sorry to hear your very sad news. Take care. Big hugs..

Rose

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Nicholatracy

So sorry to hear of your husband’s passing.

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Scat319

Sending thoughts, prayers and gentle hugs...may he rest in peace and be with the angels

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Dragonmum

It's so hard to bear when our loved ones are take so suddenly but, somehow, we find the strength to go on; you have the comfort of knowing that he had the kindest and best of care and that will help you in the grieving process. Now you must lean on others for a while and allow yourself time to heal. I am so very, very sorry for your loss.

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fredsell

Sorry for your loss. Stay strong, and just remember that he has only gone to the other side but nothing else has changed. He's there, in your heart and in your head. Love yourself, and love him.

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Shaurene

My deapest condolences to you and your family in this tragic period. It is sad, but, good he did not have to suffer for a little Ng period, he is now in peace. Am sure this is what he wanted for himself and YOU.

God Bless.

Ken

xxxxxx

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Johnem

So very sorry for your loss.

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robdonn

I am so sorry the hear about your loss and my thoughts are with you

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Mooskie

So sorry for your loss. Thank goodness, your hubby had the hospice support along with yours! I am assuming he had COPD. I too have stage 4COPD and my pulmonary doc

just told me “the end”; could happen “very quickly.” Sounds like this may have occurred with your hubby. thinking of you and hoping you have a strong support system to help you adjust to life ,without your Mom and Husband.

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parkylanestreet

So Sorry to hear of his passing. No doubt he is with God today. Take care of yourself and your family P

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poppylachat

So sorry to hear of your loss my thoughts are with you xxx

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falconcottage1

So sorry to hear that .God bless you.

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Bobbi6

Condolences.

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Maureenclayton

I'm so sorry to hear about your husband, I don't come on here as often as I should but I'm sure you will have received a lot of support from this group as they are all very caring folk, I will be preying for you now, god bless and take care of yourself. Xx

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Debbbruder

My sympathies are with you my love x

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Time_2_drink

Sending my condolences to you and yours pleased that your husband was in the care of the hospice they are a god send and so suportive to patient and partners thinking of you .

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Lily-

Sincere condolences to you & your family x

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Raka16

So sori to hear of your loss, I havent bn here much coz I have bn working as well as trying to stay well, so far things have bn going really well, I know exactly how u feel myhusband passed away 5yrs ago, he also suffered with Bronchiectasis and emphysema and now I am suffering with it but I will not let this beat me.... I know there is no cure but Im not going to lay down and die without a fight.... You take care of you before anything else ok.... Much loves to you and your family ❤❤

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