worried daughter

hi I'm wondering if anybody can give me some advice.... I'm worried about my dad 😕 just before Christmas his bone on his chest under his breast stuck out for no reason (no knocks or bangs) just all of a sudden popped out which was clear to see.. it because painful to him... 3 weeks ago he got a strange looking abscess where the binr is sticking out.. which has now burst weeping blood and puss and looks like some sort of small brain sticking out 😓 which he has dressings for to keep it clean... 5 weeks ago he went for xrays which have now shown up he has a dark shadow under his rib cage ... he's going to hospital Thursday for results... im very worried this could be bad news, can anybody please advise me on what this could be please

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  • Hello noodles123 .

    I am so sorry about your dad's distressing circumstances. How awful for all of you. I wish I could offer some insight as to what it is, but unfortunately I haven't any idea. It seems like the hospital are running tests and hopefully you will get to the bottom of this very soon. I know how very difficult it is to see your dad in such discomfort. I really hope they can find the cause and help him feel better very soon.

    Thinking of you and your dad.

    Cas xx 🌹

  • Thank you so much for taking the time to reply... it seems forever away waiting for Thursday's appointment... fingers crossed it's not bad news 😓 xxx

  • Please keep us updated. Wishing you well. xx

  • Dear Noodles, hope the hospital is able to diagnose what's wrong with your Father very quickly so that they can treat it and make him feel better. Take care, M.

  • Thank you very much.. I'm trying to stay positive but it's very worrying the waiting for results xxx

  • Try to stay strong for your dad. Hope the results Thursday are good. Please let us know how he gets on x

  • thank you so much xx

  • So sorry to hear this, thinking of you and your dad - lovely that he has you looking out for him. P x

  • Hello Noodles123

    So very sorry to read about your dad's problems and i can well appreciate the worrys​ you have and of course the anxiety your dad must be experiencing ,i don't think anyone here can help with what might or might not be ,but i do think that everyone here would like to give you their very best wishes to take with you on Thursday .

    try not to worry too much as you must be brave for your dad he needs you strong


  • Thank you so much I'm just hoping for some answers that no one on here will know I suppose . . thanks for your kind words & advice... fingers crossed it's nothing too serious xx

  • Leave the answers to the experts

    Good luck with all


  • thanks Graham xx

  • Hi Noodles

    Just read your post, and I too would like to wish your Dad and you all the very best for Thursday realise you must be very worried about your Dad, but stay strong... sending big hugs for you and your dear Dad.


  • aww thank you so much so nervous for tomorrow's outcome to gets crossed it nothing too serious xx

  • Hi how are things for you now , hope the hospital gave you good news. Remember if it isn't good news they do fantastic things theses days it's Thursday tomorrow let us know how he gets on. Good Luck. X

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