Hello Time_2_drink and I can totally understand your need for just one descent nights sleep. I'm also on 45mg Mirtazapine,which is by the way the maximum dose. However my stress levels were sky high at the slightest provocation and same with my anxiety etc etc. My Doctor told me to try Sertraline 50mg daily. As usual,you've got to wait anywhere up to 4-6weeks to notice any benefit....but to be totally honest,on week 3, I've noticed my mood is a bit better, so that's a tick in that box. But more important,taking the Mirt at night,now is having a calming effect and I do feel a little sleepy!! So if you talk to your Doctor about this,he/she may suggest this for you. Obviously, we are adults and not qualified in any way to say what has worked for me will do the same for everyone. Worth talking over though? Hope you are able to come downstairs and enjoy the weather over this weekend.