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Read something today on a group I belong to on FaceAche...it's a help and advice forum for those researching their family trees and this woman's question had me laughing. She wanted to know if it would be considered weird if she added her 'fur babies' to her tree...

Now it was mean of me to think that funny...I do know many people regard their pets as family members and do actually refer to them as 'fur babies'...just because I think it's incredibly soppy doesn't mean it's silly...

This is from a woman who once moved house leaving a row of dead pets graves behind...mostly hamsters and goldfish belonging to the children, but each had its own little marker made from lolly sticks...think there was a ferret as well, it had pink eyes and used to bite.

We know someone who has her deceased horses ashes in wooden boxes arranged on her mantelpiece...with brass plaques giving their names and ages.

Can you imagine the confusion in years to come when somebody is reading that woman's research and tree and they come across her cats and dogs...would they be classed as second cousins once removed I wonder.

Another person on the same forum wanted to know how she could find a photograph of her many times great grandparents wedding...they'd married in 1722.

Old name spellings cause some grief...Elizabetha is firmly known as Elizabeth...as for Gulielmus, which was the old name for William...everyone happily puts down William Gulielmus little realising they are naming him twice as William...

Alyce causes a few scratched heads...one person asked plaintively...but how do you pronounce it...a few of the replies were a bit sharp actually.

Mind you, I think that Fernando is a peculiar name for a Yorkshire yeoman...but that is what one of my grandparents in the 1600's was called.

One of Himself's grand-daughters is named Pariss...it's the two 's' which get to us...

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Hi Vashti. How lovely it is to be reading your funny and interesting posts again. I wonder if like me you are grinding your teeth at the new BBC programme where they claim that they are doing something different by 'tracing' the descendants of characters who were 'done good to' by middle aged do gooders in the nineteenth century. We both know that to come forward is soooo much easier than going back.

As for the fur babies. I kept my Leonburger, japanese spitz and little cat in boxes in my last house. The day before I moved after 16 years I took them for a walk in the fields around my house where they had had so many happy times - and I set them free. Now they romp in the allysian fields for ever.

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I had the ashes of my beautiful Shiba Inu dogs in Oak caskets with brass name plates on a corner unit for 7 yrs until I felt I could let them go,then I set them free by scattering their ashes around a beautiful Rose bush I bought called "Remember Me " the colour of the rose was the colour of my babies fur a gorgeous orange /red, they were such special dogs,and quiet rare.

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Hi Vashti, I have had pets I have loved very much but would never count them as part of my family/ancestry. My sister's tree would be interesting because she has had dozens of pets and has fostered hundreds. She would need a tree just for them!

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We had a beagle; Pilar, who after burying her in our upper pasture; I planted a pecan tree just next to her. I put a large rock with her name on it over her.

Now, we always will know where she is.

But for future generations, her name will not be on our family tree.

sorry, but that's too confusing.

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