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[Gold13]

I do not understand what has happened. Aberdeenmàn said I was a user(IDK) .WHAT is that?I've been nice to everyone.This Brian,I don't know who this hater is.So,if you all don't want me here I will leave.

[aberdeenman]

when did I say you were a user, I asked you a question, I simply asked if you knew brian because you appeared to support him. that was all I asked you nothing else. not once did I use the word user.

tam

[Gold13 in reply to aberdeenman]

I don't know if you got my post Aberdeenmàn. I don't know that person.I wouldn't want to!

[aberdeenman in reply to Gold13]

as I said I only asked you that one question, you replied you didn't know him and that was end of it, I certainly didn't call you a user.

tam

[Gold13 in reply to aberdeenman]

OK.

[FarmerD in reply to aberdeenman]

Hi Tam,It was the troll that used the term " user " because I remember thinking oh here we go again another idiot with a few missing links ( that,s me being polite lol ).That person now resides in my little ignore box so does,not even exist anymore.They,ll crawl back under their stone soon.D. 😋

[aberdeenman in reply to FarmerD]

hi davy yes there gone now, away under the floor boards lol

tam

[Puffthemagicdragon]

It seems there has been a misunderstanding.

[Gold13 in reply to Puffthemagicdragon]

OK,thank you,I'll tell ya that hurt my feelings thinking about it .

[Hidden]

Dont be silly of course we want you.

Due to the way these posts go sometimes people end up responding to the wrong person it can be frustrating and confusing x x

[Gold13 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you Mandy xx

[Hidden in reply to Gold13]

Many many posts if you read them go all over the place where people end up chatting to each other or they reply to the wrong person then we forget who is talking to who about what !!! x x x

[jenss]

Hi Gold13, I don't know what that was about and the post has been deleted now. Sometimes people post inappropriate posts or replies: I assume the "user" post was one of those as it has now been deleted. The moderators ban those that make inappropriate comments for a period of time. Sometimes the inappropriate comments are due to a misunderstanding: some people may not read comments properly, writings may be hard to understand/open to interpretation, some people are very touchy, quick to attack others etc etc. Please try not to worry: Aberdeenman is just one member here, his comments do not represent all of us others. Know within yourself that you have done nothing wrong, and if you have done something wrong be big enough to apologise. I am very sorry this has happened to you, but please do not let that drive you away from this forum. Most people on here are helpful, genuine and kind. Best wishesxxx

[fastball]

everyone is welcome on here, try not to upset people. I answer people in a way that i would like to be responded to , So look forward to your imput . XXX

Chris

[Gold13 in reply to fastball]

Thank you Fast ball

[knitter in reply to Gold13]

Hi gold, like Mandy said that post yesterday went back and forwards , people replying to different people...it got very complicated.

[newlands]

No need for you to go we are here for you

Take care

Dorothy

[Hidden]

Its best to put the name of the person you are talking to at the beginning of the message, so the message doesn't get confused with those to others. This message is to everyone, hence no name at the beginning.

[hufferpuffer]

Hey Gold, don't you go awol on us! I look forward to your posts! Hope you've been having a good weekend, huff xxx

[sassy59]

Stick around Gold as you are welcome here. xxxx

[Nanaeal]

Slow down gold. I read those posts & can see why your upset. The questions were very direct & appeared to be in response to your attdempts to defuse the situation with a bit of humour.

I got a bit confused myself.

Aberdeenman has been very supportive to me in the last few days so Im sure it was a missunderstanding. No need to go anywhere.

By the way trolls do try to stir up trouble clearly Brian had read peoples posts & tried to upset them he must have taken ages to xhhoose the bits he thought would be most hurtful. So do let's unite against sad people who behave so badly.

Hope your feeling better.

[rubyred777]

Hi Gold

Like everyone said-- that post went all over the place! I agree with Poems , to put the persons name at the top. I've had that happen before. It can get confusing.

Hang in there Gold.😊 Your good with us....

Rubyxx😊

[Nikkers]

Stay with us gold.....we're a nice bunch, honest! lol

I never saw the "Brian" post, but I've gathered he was just yet another ignorant idiot with nothing better to do all day? I take no prisoners and these stupid people get both barrels when they take me on. Don't let the likes of him upset you, he's just a non-person and they get eradicated very fast on this site.

Nikki XX