10.15am: Note added: pleased to see the three posts have been taken down, thank you!
(Edit: This was posted around 7.00am Im concerned what new members must be thinking if they log on this morning.
Im really annoyed to see three pointless and gratuitous posts from a member who seems set on keeping a difficult and painful issue going, and from the few replies, Im not alone in this.
A lot of opinions have been expressed - by myself too - but now its time to move on and concentrate on what we are here for, helping each other by sharing information, support and friendship.
I and I'm sure many other members would want to disassociate ourselves from the three posts written last night, and to say to new members - we are here to welcome you to the forum. Please do get in touch if you have queries or just to say hello.