Yep today post is bit of STRANGE one that touches all of us YEP RELATIONSHIPS what ever case might be ... and not being quite dead yet .
Having been a member for a tad I have observed the distinct lack of post addressing relationships and lung disease.
Yes I know it's highly personal issue others might not want to talk about but I think there are other members tad younger not ready to hang the socks up yet .... and there's nothing wrong with expressing a non-personal option on said subject.
I know BLF addressed approached subject with pen pals stuff ?
Anyway yep everything is being threw into the pot with this one .... for no other reason then why not
For example :
Do relatives family have quite a lot to say on a new existing relationships like you don't know your own mind ... best analergy is like palliative care but before it's needed or ya dead
Then we have illness trying to control your life are you better pretending your not defective ill .... Dose it mater as we are all born to die and know one knows what's round the corner really
Then we have lung disease are suffers any different than anyone else
I think not yet Some will get dear JOHNS JANES because of no other reason than your illness or they just can't cope
Others will be lucky whether its new or existing relationship because a loved ones accepted your illness as a part of you and can see beyond that thus realised that the good in you outweighed the bad no mater what the future holds