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My dear wife past away 5weeks ago after 10 years of fighting COPD,sadly she got yet another chest infection and she could not fight this one off,so Shelbie 88 Goodnight GodBless Love You.

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PeterK1

So sorry to hear that, God bless

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PeterK1

So sorry to hear that, God bless

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Louisiana

I am sooo sorry to hear this. Those blasted infections - I often wonder why they can't give us a break once in a while. I send you my heartfelt thoughts and hope you have family and friends around to help you in your grief. Do take care of yourself now.

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jojam

So sorry to hear of your wife's death may she rest in peace, my condolences to you, family & friends of Shelbie88.

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Sohara

So sorry to hear your news shelbie

Thanks so much for taking the time to come in to let us know

It's always sad when someone you love loses their fight. You must have had a few tough years watching your wife struggle with her illness

I hope you have family who are near & can help you through this sad time

Sending you lots of love

From Sohara

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sassy59

Just want to send my very deepest sympathies to you. Sorry your poor dear wife could not fight another infection. God bless to you and your family. xx

I am so sorry for you and your families loss. Not easy watching someone u love struggle with something we would normally take for granted. But least ur wife has no more struggles just peace, it's the family left behind that struggle more. Wish u all well. X Sonia x

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jabber

So very sorry to hear your sad news. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Jan x

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newlands

You take care I will be thinking of you hope you have people around you.

I am so sorry Shelbie. She is up with the angels now. My thoughts and prayers are with you. xx

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peege

So so sorry to hear your news and thank you so much for coming on to let us know.

Do come back to share with us if you need to. Someone is usually on 24 hours a day. There are other spouses here, grieving the loss of loved ones.

May Shelbie88 rest in peace now. with love from many strangers. P

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rockett777

Shelbie88

Im so sorry for you loss, may you sleep tonight. know you are in our thoughts. My heart is with you as my hubby died 13 weeks ago. x

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bubbles37 in reply to rockett777

so sorry for ur loss also. thoughts & prayers with u tcxxx

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Bryju124

Our condolences on you so sad loss. God Bless x

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kimmy59

So sorry to hear of your loss, I hate this disease. I hope your memories will console you in the coming days.

Kim xxx

My condolences to you as well,on your sad news.May she rest in peace now,bless her.

Do hope youhave family near,to grieve with,& remember the happy times,

Thanks for letting us know,take care,

God bless xx

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mustcarryon

So sorry to hear of you sad loss. Our thoughts are with you. God Bless xx

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harvey8

so sad for your loss, God bless you and yours

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Lyn45

Hello I'm so sorry to hear of your very sad lose, I find this is one of the biggest disease going and very little is being said about it or even on the TV. Maybe one day it will all change,we are all thinking of you on this site.

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ditowler

My deepest condolences to you and your family, may she rest in peace now. ♡♡

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PositiveThoughts

So sorry and I wish you a peaceful time grieving, its hard my children lost there Dad 8 weeks ago at 52 no warning at all in bed sleeping and very fit as well and we are a family still in shock, I wish the kids had time to say goodbye, I hope you where able to do that.. I don't know how to go forward with them right now, life is cruel take care of yourself.xx

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ostiad in reply to PositiveThoughts

Positive Thoughts, I'm so sorry for your sad loss too and at such a young age, what a shock for you all. I hope you can keep strong, for yourself and your family. My thoughts are with you; big hugs June xx

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PositiveThoughts in reply to ostiad

Thank you June you too xx

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windynight in reply to PositiveThoughts

Positive thoughts

My God,cannot imagine what you are going through. May you find the strength to get through this.Sincerely hope life gets better for you. Look after yourself and your children.

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PositiveThoughts in reply to windynight

Yes still not sure where we are with this, it comes in waves every day, have to step up my role now, worse thing I am 59 and hubby 52 never expected it this way ..

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bubbles37 in reply to PositiveThoughts

so sorry to hear of ur sudden loss, i can just imagine how heart breaking it was for u all. thinking of u all tcxxx

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PositiveThoughts in reply to bubbles37

Thank you still very cloudy, one at Uni of 20 one at home and very scary right now xx

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bubbles37 in reply to PositiveThoughts

u r more than welcome. i'm glad at least ur not alone, b proud of the one at uni & also the one at home, at least one is there to help u & other doing their best for you 2. please if ever you need some one to talk to, please contact me any time. my thoughts & prayers are with you tcxxx

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PositiveThoughts in reply to bubbles37

Thank you most kind of you, I appreciate your thoughtful words xxx

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bubbles37 in reply to PositiveThoughts

wish there was more i could say, apart from please take solance in the fact that ur wonderful wife is no longer suffering from a dreadful desease that comes to many of us. tcxxx

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bubbles37 in reply to PositiveThoughts

just wish she was still with u & ur family. my heart is with u's. tcxxx

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victoriablue

Shelbie thoughts are with you take care. Hard to say lost my hubby 2 years ago aged 67 but you have to look after you now.

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letys

so very sorry to hear about your recent loss of your wife, no words I can say ease your pain but my thoughts are with you and all those who are living with, caring for and who have lost someone through lung disease. it's a horrible condition which as Lyn 45 says, gets very little recognition. God Bless and take care Letys x.

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Jolyn

My deepest sympathy to you and your family, may she rest in peace. I lost my husband 6 months ago. :-(

I still pop on here though, everyone is so kind. xxx

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mcnally

God bless and take care x

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ostiad

I'm so sorry for your sad loss. Take care and keep strong. June xx

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Lolly2

Sincere condolences to you and your family.

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O2Trees

Im so very sorry Shelbie. I echo the many who have said to come on here any time you want to. Thinking of you and sending love and strength to you and your family.

I am so very sorry for your loss.

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pollyjj

Sincere condolences to you and your family.

polly xx

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hufferpuffer

So very sorry for your loss, may time help to heal your pain and may your wife rest in peace and love, huff xxx

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mogworth

So sorry for your loss, deepest sympathies to you and your family.

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brightside57

Sorry for your loss, and deepest sympathies to you and your family. xxx

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jimmyw123

so, so sorry to hear of this sad news, will pray for the strength to carry you through,, god bless,, jimmy

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katieoxo60

My thoughts go with you at the sad loss of your wife, she is at peace now leaving behind many happy memories to sustain you through the days ahead.

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Scat319

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers and positive thoughts...May she rest in peace now.

Cat

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caz1988

Sympathies to you and your family xx

My deepest sympathy. Must have been and must be very hard for you. Take care and get all the hugs you need. Xxx

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grannybell

Deepest sympathy. You are in my prayers.

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Grandad1

Sorry to here that,our thoughts and prayers are with you

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Tazzy2

Bless you and her my dear

Big hugs xxx

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2malinka

I am so sorry for your loss. God Bess.

l

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tigershay1

So very sorry for your loss x

So sorry to know that your dear wife Shelbie has passed away; my condolences to you and your family x

So sorry to hear about your wife, my thoughts are with you at this sad time Xx

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helingmic

Oh Shelbie, we love you too very dearly. It is sad; let this moment be and then let it go. We go through these sad moments, because we are humans, not robots. That reassures me. Still not easy! I shed some tears with you and put my arm around you.

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bubbles37

my heart goes out to u. may she rest in peace. god bless u's both. my thoughts are with u. tcxxx

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Petar28

So sorry for your loss you are in my prayers take care of yourself god bless

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maincarer

I am sending you my best wishes to you and your family at this sad time. She is not suffering anymore so try to hold on to that thought. My darling husband passed away from COPD one year ago and the last 5 years of his life were terrible.... hold on to the thought that she is not suffering anymore. Take care of yourself and keep smiling

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Rosanne

Thinking of you and your family at this very sad time.

GOD REST HER SOUL

SHE'S WATCHING OVER YOU :)

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Batbara

It always saddens me when I hear of a lost loved one. It's heart breaking. Unfortunately, we all, at some time experience this. . It is the hardest time in our Human journey. My thoughts and prayers are being sent to you at this difficult time.

Hugs!

Barbara

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Puffthemagicdragon

So sorry about your loss. It affects us all on here and we are here if you need to chat.

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eastridingbigden

Hi Shelbie sorry to hear your news As the song says' Everybody Hurts Sometimes' ''''''' but it does not make it easier, just remember the good times all the time, not the bad times and you will get through this bad time okay

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sweetthing1

I am so very, very sorry for your loss, I know exctly how you are feeling. My Peter died 4 weeks ago in hospital, after another bout of pneumonia and respiratory failure. I was his 24/7 carer for the past three years but he had COPD for the past 10 years. I cannot believe that three weeks before his death he was tootling around York railway station on his mobility scooter, taking photographs, he drove the car there and back with my son and grandsons for company, it was a boys day out as my husband was a train fanatic. When does the hurting stop, when does the large empty hole in your stomach heal, when do we stop feeling cold all the time. We have sons and grandchildren but they don't help at all, they take my mind off things for a while then I look at my husbands photo and I break down again because he should be here with me. It was him and me all the time, never apart. We met when he was 18 years old so I have know him most of my life and it is like losing the other half of me. I honestly cannot see me ever getting over this I am now 72 years old and thank god I may not have long in this world as living without him is killing me.

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