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Today has to be the worse day of our adult children and my life. I need to be strong but my legs are buckling, I feel

nauseous and panicky, why its my hubby's farewell.

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I am so sorry..Be strong,and God bless xxx

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peege

My thoughts are with you. It's such a deeply emotional time, no wonder you are panicky and weak at the knees.

I'd like to encourage you all to let go and weep, it's not good for you all to try to control it. You're children will be trying to be stong too, for you so today you will hold each other up.

Today is your chance to celebrate his life as you say your goodbyes as well as a time to share your grief and lean on each other.

Such an important day, you will get through it and begin the journey of coming out the other side.

Have a beautiful loving day together. Thinking of you and sending love. XXX

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Suzy6

In my thoughts and prayers. Today is the day to remember and give thanks for the good life you had together and the love he gave you and your children. xx

God be with you love, I am sure you and your children will make him very proud. You will all be able to remember all the wonderful times you have shared together. He will never be far from any of you. Take good care, with lots of love TADxxx

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cofdrop-UK

Dear rockett

A difficult day for you and your family but a day full of love. May you all derive strength from one another, the strength too not to bottle up your emotions.

Rocket please know we are all here for you if you want or need to talk with us.

Will be thinking of you.

With love cx

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newlands

My thoughts are with you

love Dorothy xx

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Plumbob

My Thoughts are with you and your family during this terrible time and i would like to echo PEEG's sentiments ... God Bless

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CouncillorB

As a widow of 17 years I say to you "enjoy" your husbands funeral. You will be proud and uplifted by the tributes paid to him and the people who turn up in his memory.Take pride in the esteem your husband was held and don't be afraid to share your grief. I personally did my crying when I was alone because I didn't want anyone intruding on my grief,but we are all different

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huggs

Hi Rocett,

No doubt, today will be hard to get through. As everyone has said, you will gain strength and support from each other. I said to you previously, do not be afraid to cry, just to appear strong. Crying is not a sign of weakness, its a natural reaction to your husband's passing. Let people know how you feel, as there is no sense in bottling it all up. We all handle things in our own way, and no way is right or wrong. Its what is right for you.

You and your family will lean on each other, and get through this day, and the days ahead. You will also be boosted when you see the people turning up to show their respect, support, good wishes, love and who thought enough of your husband to do this.

My thoughts are with you all today, and I wish you peace and strength.

God bless you. hugs xx

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junespoon

Such a difficult day for you and your family Rockett, My thoughts will be with you,xx

Don't know what to say Rockett. Am thinking of you and your family. xxx

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pollyjj

My thoughts today are with you and your family.

polly xx

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Louisiana

Today will be an emotional rollercoaster of a day...but keep hugging one another, keep crying whenever you feel like it and smile when you speak of happy days with your husband.....and take care of yourself as much as you can. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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sassy59

How very sad for all of you but be strong for each other. Thinking of you and my heart goes out to you all. xxxx

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kimmy59

God bless you are in our thoughts. Only time will lesson your pain, hold on to your memories.

Kim xxxx

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Mummywummy

Bless you, you must be devastated. Nothing anyone can say will make you feel better. You must go through all the process to come out the other side. Don't worry about being strong, as my grandaughter said to me at a funeral .go on Nanna let it rip. All the best to you

I hope you and your family have plenty of support at this awful time. Thinking of you and sending prayers and hugs. xx

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1968

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. xxx

David 1968

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brooksju

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, try to remember all the good times and celebrate your husbands life as well as grieving his passing, try to be strong for today and God be with you.

Jude x

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olgamarie

Rockett777, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with all of you. Blessings Olga Marie

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mrskotc

I am sending lots of HUGS,my heart goes out to you and your family.I know how much you are hurting.You will be in my prayers. Love mrskotc

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oxytic

rocket 777 Sorry for your great loss . I hope your pain will lessen with each passing moment I pray; hold on in there bless you and your family .....eric

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sharon18

I am so sorry just be there for your children.and think of all the good times and things will get better.god bless.

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dwitt

Time heels but morning is a great self-help process. At this time family members need to keep close by to settle issues and reminisce. Your husband may not be physically here but he left great memories. God bless and fine solace.

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helingmic

This is the power of love that he will stay indelibly in your mind for all his kindness. I send my prayers to you. don't worry if you cry, it's a sign of love. Be of good courage, together with your children.

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