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A little reminder!!

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Be kind to 0ne another,even if you dont agree on stuff!

I got an irish joke banned the other day,very pc i thought,wondered if someone who was upset with my Scottish joke complained!!

Anyway, shall abide by the rules,& not mention any nationalitys in future,rather sad realy,as no harm was meant in it!

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Suzy6 profile image
Suzy6

I'm half Irish Wendells. I read it and enjoyed it. xx

in reply to Suzy6

Hi Suzy,glad you did,I never even saw it up! Hope alls well with you,xxxx

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BigBreaths

I'm Irish and never take offence.

in reply to BigBreaths

Then you are a true Irishman,love them,& they know how to laugh with others,not at them,love Wendells xxx

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ladyinspain

Hi Wendells ,well I'm Scottish & it takes a lot to upset me ,love people who try to spread a little happiness ..

in reply to ladyinspain

Txs for your reply,yes I always like a bit of a laugh,to break the sadness,that we live with at times.Keep smiling,hugs,Wendells xxx

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jimmyw123 in reply to

yes off course we need that ,, you know what they say,, laughter is the best medicine,,,jimmy xxx

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jimmyw123 in reply to ladyinspain

same as me ladyinspain,, pitty we couldnt bottle happiness in scotland,, just like our whisky lol jimmy xxxx

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Mocarey

Didn't see your joke but am sure I would not have been offended. There are a lot of jokes talking about how miserable us Scots are so I presume it was something along that line. But I wouldn't worry too much if I were you there is always someone waiting to complain. Take care M xx

in reply to Mocarey

Txs Mocarey,I would never wittingly hurt anyone,I agree with what you said! Hope you're ok,love Wendells xxx

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CornishBrian

Know what you mean. Put me on the naughty step for mentioning a certain hair colour.Wouldn't mind so much except I'm that colour...or was.Took my jokes down that had been there a few weeks but left other jokes up that others had posted on the same hair colour.

in reply to CornishBrian

Yes,know what you mean Brian,never mind,we will sit on the naughty step together lol! xxx

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CornishBrian in reply to

It's your fault....you started it....Lol.

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CornishBrian in reply to CornishBrian

If you use the Search thingy, there are still jokes about a certain colour there....but one of them is the same as one that I had removed before being banished.Then they wonder why people go underground and emerge with two or three different names.

in reply to CornishBrian

No,I'm not biting!! xx

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pergola1

This political correctness is out of control, Wendells. I am sure you could find a relaxed friendly forum, where you could relax, and not be looking over your shoulder.

in reply to pergola1

Ha ha Pergola,know where that's coming from!! Hope you & Brian are not over doing it with the move,take care,love Wendells xxx

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butter-fly

Hi Wendells, Sorry your joke was banned. Sign of the times I suppose! Over the years I have asked people of certain nationalities about their take on jokes that use their ethnic origins or colour as part of the fun of the joke. Some people don't seem to mind but others have said that they get upset when they are portrayed as a nation as stupid, or cheap, or free with sexual favours, etc. No matter how much this is not meant by the joke there are some that will always take offence. Regards Sara

in reply to butter-fly

Hi Sara,yes,well i will be more careful in future! I do take your point.

I guess in Aus here,we're not so politically correct,& often laugh at how we get portrayed at times,& enjoy it!

Anyway,done & dusted now! Hope you're ok.Love Wendells xxx

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butter-fly in reply to

We do laugh at ourselves here too Wendells but I suppose not in print. I told a Polish joke in the pub a few months ago and was told I was ignorant by a Pole. My apology was not accepted! I'm pretty careful now. Hope you too are well and have a good day. Love Sara xxx

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dukes

Yeah, we all seem to be 'Walking on egg-shells' these days, Wendells, though most of us are from an age when people were made of sterner stuff ! :)

in reply to dukes

Oh so true Dukes! xx

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Whinger in reply to

OMG soooo sad

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Offcut

Free speech should be free speech. Jokes by there nature are there to shock and make you think left of base. I do find some things offensive but If I do I will ignore it or reply.

Where the problem can be is when it spirals out of control because it has become a slanging match and that does not make a good forum.

I think this forum is great as many issues are discussed including benefit help and advice which is not political but sometimes seems to be deemed to be?

We must all remember that we are putting OUR OPINIONS and IDEALS which we may not all agree with BUT we are all on here because we have lung conditions that we can share our experiences with each other in so many different ways.

Be Well

in reply to Offcut

Hi offcut,I agree it is a great forum,I have been here about 18 months,& like you,ignore if I don't agree,or feel offended about it.

Hope you're ok,take care,love Wendells xx

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Offcut in reply to

Just got back from docs with the wife and she has Mumps so now I am waiting to see if I start to swell up as I have never had it either and the doc has said we need to sleep in separate rooms as she is contagious for the next week :(

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that can turn nasty take care Offcut

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Offcut in reply to

Yes and it can go to other glands as well 6 weeks afterwards. I am not sure if I am just thinking it but my ears are aching and even the wife has said there seems to be some swelling.

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huggs

Please don't worry about it. There is always someone looking to complain about something or another. I am Scottish and often the butt of my English friend's jokes! The world seems to have gone a little bit crazy and really, people should learn to keep things in perspective.

Talking about keeping things in perspective......I have numerous health issues (like most of you), and I am at the scary stage just now because I don't have enough knowledge about the extent of my problems because I am waiting to see a consultant. Try and picture this scene if you can....I fell asleep on my couch last night while propped up on pillows. I was awakened from a deep sleep with a heavy pressure feeling on my chest. I thought, oh great that's all I need now, a heart attack! My breathing was slightly laboured and found it difficult to move. - I just lay there thinking for a minute (not opening my eyes). All of a sudden I heard a soft snoring sound. It was my cat who was lying on my chest!! I felt a bit silly to say the least, but I did have a good laugh to myself.

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Riverbank in reply to huggs

Glad that made you laugh huggs, after your heartbeat had returned to normal........lol

in reply to huggs

Oh huggs,I am still laughing,what a hoot! Mind you,I can understand your fear of such a weight on your chest,my goodness,that must have been a relief,when you knew the cause,bet you felt 10 years younger! I can just picture the scene!

Hope you feel a bit clearer about things,after you see the consultant,don't forget to write down anything you want to ask,before you see him,I learnt that the hard way,walking out & remembering what I had wanted to ask 10 minutes later!!Let us know how you get on,txs for cheering me up!xxx

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flyingfairys in reply to huggs

lions are dangerous a little pussy never hurt anyone huggs

Supporting the moderators messaging them if a decision seems unfair its what KOTC would have done thinking whats best for our community please tell me I am unreasonable asking for this.

Ali

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Moderator(no name) wrote a pm to me,I knew what he/she was getting at,no need to reply!xx

Wish I had seen the joke Wendells coz I am sure I wouldn't have objected. It is all very difficult these days and I guess if a joke has even a slight risk of offending anyone then it shouldn't be posted. Does seem a shame though.

in reply to

Hi coughalot,txs for reply,agree with you xxx

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helingmic

Don't mention the Ukrainians!

in reply to helingmic

Ha ha,I'll be careful!! xx

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jools

I hate this pc world we live in now, the British are renowned for their self deprecating humour and using humour to make light of terrible deeds and occasions, it's how we deal with problems - or at least it was! Now we are all supposed to make a public spectacle of ourselves by apologising for things our forebears did, showing our tears to the general public via camera/newspapers, mass hysteria of laying candles, flowers, toys for people we have never met and telling the world our problems via Jeremy Kyle etc. Just very glad I'm not growing up in this pc humourless (unless you count foul language and toilet humour) age. Julie x

Yes it is sad jools,but we ain't going to change things I'm afraid!

How are you getting on now? Hope alls well,as can be,take care,love Wendells xxx

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jools in reply to

Hi Wendells, the sun is shining at the moment and that makes me feel a whole lot better lol Julie x

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eightyplus

Well I am into my Eighties now and can always remember the best jokes were always about the Englishman, the Scotsman, Welshman and the Irishman.

Political correctness has created an association of certain words to suggest racism or terrorism. We hardly feel threatened by Blonde......but say or write the word Moslem and Wow! that is just the tip of the iceberg.......!!!

A joke is intended to make people smile, to share a moment outside the complexities of daily life, if we err, let the moderator sort it out, but remember most of us have no wish or do we condone hurting or insulting any human being regardless of who they are.

Here is one oldie:

There's an Englishman, Irishman & Scotsman all talking about their teenage daughters. The Englishman says "I was cleaning my daughter's room the other day and I found a packet of cigarettes. I was really shocked as I didn't even know she smokes". The Scotsman says "That's nothing. I was cleaning my daughter's room the other day when I came across a half full bottle of Vodka. I was really shocked as I didn't even know she drank." With that the Irishman says "Both of you have got nothing to worry about. I was cleaning my daughter's room the other day when I found packet of condoms. I was really shocked. I didn't even know she had a willy."

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jools in reply to eightyplus

Agree 100% eightyplus - and you made me laugh out loud. :) Julie x

Hallo there,was just switching off,& your post flashed up in time,so glad it did! You make a lot of sense,you know!

Loved the joke,have never heard it before,it's a beauty,just hope it doesn't get you into trouble!!

All the best jokes,always had 'those groups' in,I quite agree with you,it is getting a rather sad world now,I'm glad I grew up when I did! Hugs & love to you,Wendells xxx

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undine

they really seem to not want us to laugh now on this site - really miss the daily jokes - let's face it some days we have little to laugh at - thanks for trying Wendells sorry your joke got taken off - please keep trying to put on jokes - I've never been offended by a joke on here. xx

in reply to undine

Hi undine,will have to think of some politically correct ones(a wee bit hard)

Lol,keep well, love Wendells xxx

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huggs

hi eightyplus ......now that is a good one. I must try and remember it but I'm pretty hopeless at doing this. Thanks for giving me a laugh. Take care.

Ha Ha

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junespoon

Great one eightyplus,must remember that, no pc, has gone far to far now.

libby7827 profile image
libby7827

There'll always be the few who try to dictate what we do, say and think Wendells. The support for you here must show them that it's time they got over themselves. Hope you and hubby are doing well. Libby x

in reply to libby7827

Hi Libby,good to hear from you,how are you anyway?We are struggling a bit at the moment,good days & bad,just concentrate on the good ones!!

Love & hugs Wendells xxx

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snow54flake

im irish and it doesnt bother me marian xx

in reply to snow54flake

Youre a true Irishman! xxx

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friendly

love your jokes, keeps us all smiling. (most of us anyway)

in reply to friendly

What a lovely 'friendly remark!' xxx

Aidi profile image
Aidi

I can think of one good joke that everyone should be able to appreciate..........it's called D.L.A.!!!!! Take care guy's Aidi:-)

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pergola1

I was one of the first remarking on the disappearance of your joke, and suggesting that you use a friendly,more tolerant forum. Never guess, it disappeared. I dont use BLF very much now. It fulfills an excellent need for genuine medical and lung queries, but anything else forget it.

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Gilliann

Hi Wendall's, I didn't see the joke, but we all need a laugh,(good one eighty plus) Wendell's I don't often write on here, but when I first joined you were one of the first ones to welcome me, it is clear to all on this site that you are held in high regard, and are very supportive to everyone who needs a little lift, am pleased every one is with you now, I felt a connection with you because of my family living in Oz and yes it takes a lot to offend the Aussies, we could do with a bit of their 'No worrie's mate' here.

I still cannot work out the nice little piece you wrote to me , that did not appear on the public messages, a little about you and your family. Keep smiling Wendall's, and as they say 'What a Beaut' Love Gilliann x

PS what I meant was I didn't know how to send background info back xx

in reply to Gilliann

What a kind reply,cobber! Lovely to know you're stitill around,you must jump on more often!

Yes, 'no worries mate' is very Aussie,& often heard,quite a little reassuring remark realy.

I dont know if the info you had about me,was from where our profile is,or whether that was in a pm box(private message) not sure mate!

Anyway Gillian,hope all is ok with you,will say 'Hooroo' for now,love your Aussie mate,Wendells xxx

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tomc

If you cant laugh at yourself who can you laugh at.

I think sometimes people get the hump over nothing see red jump up and down and then think actually that was funny.

Tom.

in reply to tomc

To true Tom xx

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onamission

Not sure what all the fuss is about these jokes have been around for years we are becoming very pc between this and health & safety rules this world has gone mad.

nanaber profile image
nanaber

Hi Wendells I'm up early my turn to do early morning feed with the baby. As u know I'm Irish I didn't read ur joke but I'm sure u would never write anything to cause offence

in reply to nanaber

Hi nanaber,how's the little one going? I'm sure he has first class care,with Nana there! How are you,hope you're taking care of yourself too??

You'll have to get a pic,of the 2 of you up,hope your daughters ok now too,

Lovely to hear from you,xxxx to you & bubby xxx

Hi onamission!Sometimes I'm glad I'm at the older years,not starting out,it's such a different life today,people can't be themselves any more,we're all supposed to fit in the boxes,very boring! xx

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tigerhouse

I,am a Geordie married to a paddy , he's nutty as fruit cake so we are well matched, we bounce of each other and love all the jokes on here , loved the ones of " satan " & the " hanging wright " joke, like the old saying if you can't laugh at yourself .......

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jimmyw123

och wendells i didnt know there were jokes taken off,,, my goodness me!!!!, theres a limit off course, but if we cant laugh at ourselves at times , we,would all be crying,, theres a big difference from direct offence,, than a joke,, ,, i think most of us look forward to the humour page,, i know i do,, lol,,, keep them coming,, jimmy xxxx

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