I have posted this questiin before but it seems to ha dissapeared into obscurity ..so bear with me ! I have had respiratory problems all my lire im 66. And now classed as stage 3/4 my husband is in his 70,s a verry fit...luckily. .he helps me me so much and for that am eternally greatfull the thing is he gets verry upset at times he,s on antidepressants and we have a good g p and resp team .. the thing is.if i tell him how i feel he gets upset. . What do others do ...keep jt bottled up so he doesnt get upset or tell him and get it off my chest (no pun intended ) we have good family but it all seems to fall on him. He,s the one her all the tiime. Seeing what others dont. What can i do to help him ??